a lot of people ask me it whrn do you get a boyfriends when your 11 or when your 16 i dunno i really want to find out my 11 year old friends all have borfriends but i think it is too young to have one soo when do you get a boyfriends?
2006-06-11 22:52:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you're looking for one special guy, consider following these tips to get a boyfriend.
Steps:
1. Know what type of guy you're looking for. Make a list of traits that appeal to you, such as intelligence, looks, ambition, sense of humor, or respect for other people's feelings.
2. Resolve old hurts and disappointments. Make sure you're ready for a new relationship by setting aside any grievances about old boyfriends.
3. Attract the type of guy you're looking for by emphasizing your best features and downplaying undesirable traits. Make the most of what you have, both physically and mentally.
4. Learn how to make a guy feel good about himself by taking an interest in his life and his aspirations.
5. Consider any unattached guys at your school or work. Do any of them match the qualities that you want in a boyfriend?
6. Get involved in activities that you enjoy to give yourself the chance to meet new guys. Expand your horizons and your circle of friends.
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8. If you don't have the nerve to directly approach a guy who has caught your eye, consider being his secret admirer for a while. Send him sweet, anonymous messages or notes (with a few subtle clues about your identity) to let him know about your interest in him.
Tips:
Love can surface in unexpected places and at unexpected times. Keep your eyes open for the right guy for you.
Warnings:
Don't settle for anybody just so you can say you have a boyfriend. Be selective to find the right guy for you.
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Don't be afraid
Don't go for the most popular guy in school. Look carefully for the people who are really nice. And even though you may say the popular guys are wicked nice, how do you think they get all the girls? It's a matter of looks. Even though they may look better, most of them have almost no heart at all. Go for the caring ones. Even though they may not look better, they have better hearts. And also, don't be afraid if your boyfriend says he loves you even though you have been going out for under 2 weeks. It just shows he cares for you.
2006-06-12 00:30:43 · answer #1 · answered by lonly lion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at 16
2006-06-12 05:56:46 · answer #2 · answered by sri_pondy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are ready... Don't force yourself into a situation that you aren't sure you can handle properly...
Having a relationship takes a lot of time and hard work...
Wait until your body and emotional state are a little more matured... Then start to pursue it...
And finding guys is easy... Just wear something sexy and they'll be at your feet in no time... Also if you see a guy you fancy, ask him out...
2006-06-12 06:00:08 · answer #3 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 11 you just got to have friends of all kinds and being their boys or girls doesn't matter much. it's only afterwards...may be when you are around the age of 16 you began to differentiate between boyfriends and girlfriends. till then enjoy friendship and also evaluate everybody around. There is no harm in having a lot of friends...but having specific boyfriends at 11...isn't it binding oneself too early!
2006-06-12 05:56:16 · answer #4 · answered by sameer shahi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I assume you mean a 'serious' boyfriend, I had my first 'serious' boyfriend when I was 16, he cheated on me, so we split up, I then met someone (my now partner), when I was 18, we've been together for 14 years so far, so I would say 16 is the earliest, but you're more mature at 18. :)
2006-06-12 06:13:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when to have a boyfriend is ones own decision, when you feel you are ready and mature then you will know but i dont mean when a10 year old feels she is ready then she should have a boyfriend.the maturity stage is definately way beyond 10 years but it must probably be around the ages of 16 years.
2006-06-12 06:05:47 · answer #6 · answered by maluz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get one whenever you find the right person. Keep in mind that the boyfriend you have now will most likely not be the one you have later (there will be break-ups, etc.)
2006-06-12 05:55:08 · answer #7 · answered by xdannifenx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are trouble, you're much better off without them. Anyone who thinks you need to be attached to some guy in order to feel good about yourself or life in general is an idiot. Go you for being your own person.
2006-06-12 05:54:41 · answer #8 · answered by thisfleshavenged 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
while you have this time enjoy it! have boys that are friends and learn about the species...then when your ready...you'll know what your looking for. but don't rush yourself, the world will wait for you you know. the answer isn't 16 or 18 its when you know what you want, why and what your going to do with him...thats when its time.
2006-06-12 06:17:12 · answer #9 · answered by utty11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had my 1st gf when we were both 7! but proper relationships form around 15/16
2006-06-12 06:02:54 · answer #10 · answered by Azzin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋