im married and my wife dont like sex and we dont have much of a relationship, we got married 6 years ago. and its always been the same. i have kids so im affaid to leave, but i need attention and she dont give me any and never has. after we got married i found out she didnt like sex. and i didnt have sex with her till i got married.i waited 2 years then i got married to a sexless wife, i might have sex 1once ever 2 months and then i have to beg.. im so frustrated and iv tryed ever thing and i have talked to her till ill blue.. what should i do. now i have turned to girls on the internet for sex and im not proud of it. do u think she know i do this, but she dont want me to leave
2006-06-11 22:38:35 · 16 answers · asked by wayneco_n_wv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The sex online will get old pretty fast. You need to try and work on what's real.....your wife and mother of your children. Maybe she doesn't like sex because you don't approach her the right way. Begging is such turn-off...try some real passion. If you give some true effort and things still aren't working than leave! Nothing is worse for children than growing up in a loveless home.
2006-06-11 22:46:32 · answer #1 · answered by Kelly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You want to sort out with your wife why your sex life is so meagre. Maybe you are just rubbish at making love, maybe it is other areas in your relationship that you need to pay attention to.
Committing adultery is not the answer and what about the children and how they will feel when if you carry on it is guaranteed to blow out in the open that you are a cheating dad.
Do something with your wife don't just expect her to be some sex machine and give her enjoyment of you. The only thing you seem to care about is you and your getting enough self gratification and stuff to anything else. You are a jerk that better start getting serious with your family.
Lavish some attention on your love starved and ignored wife then maybe you may have something to build on instead of just it being all about you, you, you.
2006-06-12 05:45:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the both of you need to sit down and actually discuss the WHOLE situation. Does she think that it's bad that you turn to girls on the internet? If not then continue to do what makes you feel better and if she sees it as a problem then talk about how the both of you could work it out. And if you really want to be a good husband then you might want to respect your wife and her wishes.
2006-06-12 05:44:46 · answer #3 · answered by brandy_aka_boo5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not right at all and you should not be doing this to your wife or marriage. You need help and therapy for this and if you can't stay true and faitful to her then let the poor woman go! She may also need sex therapy and help too! If she does not want you to leave then you need to get marriage counseling with her and try to work on this and change. She can talk to me anytime and so can you!
2006-06-12 11:12:22 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get a divorce since you dont like the fact that your wife wont have sex with you. You shouldn't be on the internet trying to have sex with females you dont no anyway have you thought about diseases??????? That's whats wrong with men you always try to cheat when you cant have it your way but if your that unhappy just tell her you dont want to be with her. Why cheat if your not happy??
2006-06-12 09:51:16 · answer #5 · answered by glamorous 1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i pity u an dur wife and the mess u r in.plz plz plz try to come out of this situation asap.love is more than sex,u hafta want ur wife ,love her,pamper her make her feel special..........if u can do taht she will eb ready to learn........and sex is no bigdeal wen its really wanted.there are innumerable way she can be taught.stop cribing ABOUT her and do something of ur life .dont be a loser to go to other women on internet.be a man!! i know u will get thing son track.all the best.
2006-06-12 05:44:15 · answer #6 · answered by sarita tiwari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no real grounds for divorce, but she sure does! You need to let her know what you are doing and maybe you two could get some marriage counseling. Maybe there's a reason she doesn't like sex.
You did promise to love her through the good times and bad. Honor that!
2006-06-12 06:27:42 · answer #7 · answered by yourmother 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all- what's wrong with you? Did you just marry your wife for sex? I can't believe that you've been asking girls on the internet for sex. If you really loved your wife you would respect her. You've had sex before with her, obviosly because you got kids. Sought yourself out!
2006-06-12 05:53:24 · answer #8 · answered by Cute kit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheat on her and get caught
this will make her insecure
but make sure its someone better than your wife because if not it will not work
hows the rest of your relationship?
sex is just a small part of marriage
2006-06-12 06:17:12 · answer #9 · answered by doug m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there are some perscription meds you can mash up in her food... give her a roofie or something... i dont think theres anything worng with that
2006-06-13 06:14:48 · answer #10 · answered by phur 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋