i hav asked him to move in wiv me nxt yr and he has asked me 2 marry me and we hav been togther 3months and a week is that ok
2006-06-11 21:23:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That is all wonderful - I wish you both the very best.
You have much to look forward to - the only suggestion that I have is to wait about two years before you get married. You have been together for 3 months, so the relationship is very new.
If you do decide to move in together, wait until you are together for one year. I see that you asked Shaun to move in with you next year - that is very wise.
Take things slowly, and try to get to know each other as best you can.
I hope it all goes as you hope.
Good Luck and God bless!
2006-06-11 21:28:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your comfort level doesn't seem to be where it should be. My husband and I met in late July and we started planning our wedding Thanksgiving weekend (same year) so it can work out if it's moving that fast. We didn't live together before the wedding, and he was a virgin at the wedding. So those were factors that we considered....we knew it wasn't about sex and we didn't "play house" before the wedding.
You don't mention how old you are (or he is). that could also be a factor. We were in our thirties when we met, and we both knew what we were looking for in a mate. I knew from day one that I was going to marry him.
If you know it's right, go for it. If you have any hesitations, don't make a life time commitment. I am very thankful that my ex-fiance canceled our wedding.
2006-06-12 04:33:40 · answer #2 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that ain't love that is lust and infatuation. You will use each other for free sex then when your done you will thow each other away like papertowels and look for that "new love" high all over again. This is true love...Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love isn't a fuzzy warm feeling or a hot wet feeling between your legs when you see each other.
2006-06-12 04:29:00 · answer #3 · answered by xx_muggles_xx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u need more time to think about it because all u see know is the good part of him what if he has a bad part that he does not want u to see just as yet and u go and marry him then it will be hell for u!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
give urself some time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
even if u say u love him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-12 04:26:39 · answer #4 · answered by fairy girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3mths is tooo Short.. but since u r oni planning to stay together next year, juz wait n see. Wat more impt is NOW
2006-06-12 04:26:41 · answer #5 · answered by HappYGal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋