my ex-bf / bestfriend,always tells me that he really loves me and willing to leave his gf when she's not yet pregnant. but i have a boyfriend that really loves me so much. but of course we fight sometimes and everytime my boyfriend and i fights i'll just text my bestfriend and tell him about what happened and he'll just go to our house even at 12 midnight..... and of course vice versa... last month, he jusr told me that he's getting married w/ his gf bec she's pregnant and it hurts me so much but i didn't tell him about it... 1 week later i confessed to him what i really feel for him. and he's so happy about it, and told me that i am the one he wants to marry and to be with forever. but the problem is how about he's fiancee and the baby? if ever he'll tell about what he trully feels maybe ther's a bad effect for the baby most especially when t\his fiancee can't accept it..he is willing to support the baby but what if there's something bad happened w/ the baby bec of telling the truth?
2006-06-11 21:16:14 · 6 answers · asked by fherz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
last night
i asked him if he's happy right now but i feel so sad bec he answered me, NO... his wedding is two weeks from now? how can i help him? what we'll gonna do? right now, it's like we still have a relationship, a special relationship... and if ever we're together we just do what boyfriends / girlfirends do... and he's still thinking about running away..... i also love my bf for 5 years! but i don't want to lose my bestfriend.... i love him too.... i don't know what t?
2006-06-11 21:17:28 · update #1
he reason why he's marrying that girl is only bec of she's pregnant. if he really love that girl why he's with me very often than his fiancee, even at night... sometimes he's sleeping in our house just to be w/ me... but sex is not involved w/ us i don't want that to happen. i always told him if a will be the one he'll marry i can do that. and he respects me...
but how about our true feelings? i'll let him marry his fiancee but he's the one who doesn't what to if she's not only pregnant he'll not marry her... just last night he told me to runaway but i don't think i can do taht bec i want him to tell all the people involved that he dosn't love that girl. and i am the one he wants to marry... but the girl is pregnant.... what we'll gonnan do? that' reallly a big problem....
2006-06-11 21:18:08 · update #2
he's marrying the girl just for the baby... i'm happy w/ my bf now.... but i can feel that he's not yet happy w/ his gf.... his wedding day is tomorrow!
2006-06-23 22:58:27 · update #3
You should try to see things from the gfrends perspective as well she is carrying his child and this entails responsibility from him! Don't forget that he could've left her before she fell pregnant but chose not to! Ask him why and if he is so unhappy he still has a choice he can leave her and still support his child and be with you there will be harsh consequences to face but if he loves you the way he says he does then he'll fight all odds! Talk to him name his choices and if he still refuses to change his mind and follow the more difficult road then he is playing games with you and with his girlfriend!
2006-06-11 21:29:24 · answer #1 · answered by DEE 22 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh thats very sad. Maybe this is your fate. You should marry the person u like most. Think about what will happen to your ex-bf
if u marry him he's fiancee cant take it. But if u leave your best friend think about what he will feel. Think about it!
2006-06-11 21:23:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so sad but you have to accept the fact that when he leaves his girlfriend just to be with you, you are ruining not only the life of his girlfriend but also the child's future. Love is selfless. If you really love him let him go and make yourself happy with your boyfriend. Remember not everyone marries the one they love but still they are happy with their hubby. You're the one making yourself happy or miserable.. I know its hard to let go but sometimes letting go is the only right thing to do.. Good luck girl..
2006-06-11 22:45:26 · answer #3 · answered by chevrolet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big problem is right, no matter what happens someone is going to have a broken heart, It is not a good idea marry someone you do not love. I think you all need counseling real quick like...
2006-06-11 21:24:09 · answer #4 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you may also omit every different and feature emotions for every different however marriage is anything else. You will have to permit him make his alternative with out influencing him. how come you advised him that you just adored him handiest while you recognize that he's getting married to any person else? do not you believe that he did believe plenty earlier than making one of these choice?
2016-09-09 00:02:04 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey eventually if the guy loves you more, even if you give in for the girl who is pregnant, i dont think that they will last long. i mean, if i am in ur shoe, i will go for my love rather than regret it for the rest of my life. its okay to feel sorry for the girl and the baby but what about u?
2006-06-11 21:26:26 · answer #6 · answered by nike_myth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋