I have three good friends a pretty good life..I'm just always depressed. There's not really a reason that I am, just every night I always cry and wish I was dead. I'm always mad at my friends now and I get upset at every little thing they do.The only friends that I don't get upset with are the ones that have never copied me and have been thereselves. I don't know if I should consider the ones that do make me mad and upset me even to be friends. They always copy the way I act..When I listened to rock music and got DC's..they all did too. They always ask me for stuff and I do what they ask..and they never thank me..I got so mad..that I pretty much shut myself out of the world and stay in my room all the time..I never talk to any of my friends anymore unless they call me..I don't know what I should do from here..Please help.
2006-06-11 21:00:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
in a way its flattering that your setting a trend with your plastic hang on wannabe friends, but i know how annoying it is to have your own style and ideas then your mates rip you off and it really pees you off. believe me it doesnt get better with age! stick to your real friends the ones who take the time to see if your ok, tell them why you feel down, dont bottle it up thats why your crying because you have no release. try saying no when they ask you for stuff, stick up for yourself, try speaking your mind, be you. dont shut your self away. please try and talk to someone close to you about why you wish you were dead. hope it works out well for you xx
2006-06-11 21:16:35 · answer #1 · answered by princess tinkle UK 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Did you ever try talking to them as to how you feel...and as for them thanking you each time they borrow something could be with the fact that they feel there should be 'no thank you and sorry in friendship'....looking at what you have said seems like they really admire you and you are somewhat like an idol for them...the only way to stop them from doing this is if you talk...always allow conversations in a relationship which would enable all to speak-up. Controlling anger is once again dependent upon individuals coz others can't help us with this..it's a self-fight. Speak to your other friends who you trust and ask what you could do..but never take a decision given by others blindly..think...analyse..and you would know what is right!! All the best.
2006-06-12 04:17:14 · answer #2 · answered by Treza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The people that have always been there for you no matter what are the ones you should stick by-- they are the ones that have seen you at your very lowest and still chose to remain friends...
As for the others well you know in yourself how unhappy they make you feel and obviously they are making your situaton worse for you-- be at peace with yourself and ditch the so called friends that are hanging on---
I only have 2 really good 'friends' my best friends perhaps you should just do whats right for you and stuff what anybody else thinks. If there's one thing that depression does it takes away the 'feel good factor'. Be positive and just tell the unkind ones to go bury their heads
2006-06-12 05:02:12 · answer #3 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to start putting your needs first and not worry about what anyone else may think or ask or do. If you continually put others need first then you will become even more depressed. Please make an appointment with your GP asap and get this sorted out - remember that life is too short and you must think of you!!
2006-06-12 05:04:04 · answer #4 · answered by Sasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you have come this far ,means that you no longer want to live this way and that you want to do something about it.Thats a great start.Now you need to look for some strategies and ways that change not just the way you feel but also gets you that joy and passion....that gets you energyzed!!!
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2006-06-12 04:40:22 · answer #5 · answered by giovanni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how will they know whats bothering u if u dont tell them, i think they are not copying u but becos they think u r their friend and once u like something they must like it too, i think u seems to get mad at them for no reason, try searching urself and see what u do or they do for u to get mad, have a talk with them.
2006-06-12 07:47:09 · answer #6 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-06-12 04:15:04 · answer #7 · answered by listener06y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cool it honey!take a deep breathe......let it go.you might bekinda cool/famous or something,so it's maybe that ur frndz want to be like you.maybe they r trying to tell you that all u guys 2gether r one.its ok!just calm down &do things that u know ur frndz wont be able to do!so u wont feel to bad.may be u can talk to them, they're ur frndz they should be able to understand!
2006-06-12 08:57:43 · answer #8 · answered by kitty pride 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest i can understand how you feel but there your friends that's what friends do they are like sisters and sisters can be annoying.
2006-06-12 05:11:58 · answer #9 · answered by xxsummerxx232 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a appointment with your g.p, you may need medication to help you feel better! good luck.
2006-06-12 04:13:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋