PLZ it's making me uncomfortable to have him like me like that and people at my school make fun of me because he's kind of a geek but still nice and kinda cute. But i don't like him that way.
so help me in any way ya kan OK. NO STUPID ANWSERS.
2006-06-11 19:19:33 · 10 answers · asked by Savannah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This is your friend, so you must tell him straight out:
" (name) we are really good friends, but I don't want anything to come between that, it would be too arkward. School comes first, mister. Also, dude, you gotta find yourself some hobbies and stuff so we are connected twins, becuase you do know that one day, we gonna have to go our separate ways..." This is a fun and simple way to break it to him, that school is really important to you and a strong friendship is needed to balance all the pressures of school. Also, don't call him a geek, school terms like that are really downgrading and depressing, I hate the titles they give to people (jocks, thespians, nerds), "It bothers the heck out of me" (catcher in the rye... a great novel that anyone should read)
GOod luck, be friendly!!!
2006-06-11 19:27:42 · answer #1 · answered by starrynight107 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your loss. I married my best friend. He loves me he dosen't see me as hoocie mama f meat too bad that is all you aspire to be and you cannot truly see who he really is and you have to succumb to all thoes other people who make fun of you so grab a uniform and lock step in line with all the other "popular" people become another mind numb robot because once you graduate you will wish you would have gone with him becuase at least he cares. You are about to embark on a path that at the end there is nothing but surface and you will still be hollow in the middle. You know the coolest people at school are the ones who are the most confident and don't care what other people think.
2006-06-12 02:26:21 · answer #2 · answered by xx_muggles_xx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously he liked u from the start, so best bud wasnt there to begin with, just be honest with him, and if he doesnt get the pic the let ur "best bud" go, and most of the time just to inform u even when u are honest and they say they understand, they really dont and the issue will pop up again, but give him another chance if the issue pops up again or u still dont feel comfortable around him, leave him alone, u both owe to urselves, becuz wat if u get with someone in the future, its gonna be a huge issue, then if u stay in this type of relationship long enough u might develop feelings for him and u definitely dont want that to happen while ur in a relationship with someone else.
2006-06-12 02:31:31 · answer #3 · answered by cherrybc032000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest. Tell him youre just not attracted to him in a sexual way but you love him as a good friend. There IS a difference between the 2.
2006-06-12 02:22:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wasn't a Lil bit of a geek,would you like him any more than you like him now?Tell him exactly what you just said.he is nice,but you don't like him like that.
2006-06-12 02:25:46 · answer #5 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell him, leading someone on (even if unintentionally) is just going to lead to heartache on both sides!
Let him down gently, he'll be fine!
Good Luck!
2006-06-12 02:34:00 · answer #6 · answered by SaZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him nicely that you simply want to be friends and nothing else and if he doesnt get the message then stop talking to him till he does !
2006-06-12 02:23:11 · answer #7 · answered by bronty_80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him. If he's really your best bud he'll understand.
2006-06-12 02:24:07 · answer #8 · answered by isma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are u2 bestfriend if yes the anwer is no if not take his money.
2006-06-12 02:27:21 · answer #9 · answered by NINA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jUST TELL HIM HE SHOULD RESPECT THE FRIEND SHIP OR NOT IT WOULD TURN UGLY BUT IF HE CUTE WHY NOT LAH DON'T CARE LAH IF HE A GIG.
cOULD I GET BEST ANSWER FOR THIS! THANKS
2006-06-12 02:25:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋