There is a girl I am dating. Its weird cause she was my best friends girl last year. They broke up and me and her went out a lot this year. I didnt really like her the other times we went out, but now we love eachother. But this year she had sex with my cousin, it wasnt when we were datin so I shoulden't be really mad I guess but she lied to me about it alot. And she about had sex with like 6 other people and I can't help but think she will cheat on me. When we are in person, I can tell her I trust her, and I do. But then when I'm not with her I don't know why, but I don't trust her anymore. But i do love her and everyone thinks we should keep going out. But I don't want to keep worrying about her like this all the time. Then her big sister let me read my gf's journal and found out she said I treat her bad so she could fins someone better. That was a while ago, but that made me mad and I know I treat her good. What should I do? Stay with her or break up with her? Thanks.
2006-06-11 19:15:37 · 11 answers · asked by irepcleveland 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
u r considering love just like changing cloths,where as in reality is divine.
2006-06-11 19:18:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly as a girl i would say break up with her. I know it is hard becaue you love the girl and I also am in love and know how hard it is to let someone that you care about go..but if you keep on with this you will end up hurting yourself. If she loved you she wouldnt have went and screwed the first guys she saw after you were broken up..thats just not what someone whos in love would do even if they arent with the person. I know you will make the best decision or yourself but she has been through alot of guys..thats not normal and its sick..be careful and watch your back man.Good Luck!
2006-06-12 02:21:40 · answer #2 · answered by Baller B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't trust her now, what makes you think that you will be able to trust her in the future? And if you can't trust her to be true and loyal to you now, and she has a history of "almost having sex with 6 people" in the past, and she has written in her diary herself that she doesn't trust you either, personally, in my opinion,you should probably both go to councling together and have some serious talks together with someone you both trust there with you two, and see if you two really have a potential future together. If you do, more power to you, but if not,you both need to agree that it's time to move on.
2006-06-12 02:36:54 · answer #3 · answered by bigbrotherofmany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I CAN'T REALLY BELIEVE YOU NEED TO ASK. BUT THEN AGAIN, WHEN YOU REALLY CARE ABOUT SOMEONE YOU CAN BE BLINDED BY THEM. OKAY THE FIRST SIGN THAT YOU REALLY SHOULD NOT GO OUT WITH HER WAS WHEN SHE ACCEPTED YOU AFTER BEING WITH YOUR BEST FRIEND. THAT MY FRIEND WAS NOT GOOD.
YOU'RE ACTUALLY NOT A REALLY GOOD FRIEND AND MAYBE THIS IS YOUR PAY BACK FOR BETRAYING YOUR FRIEND. SHE IS OBVIOUSLY NO GOOD. IF SHE'S SLEEPING AROUND WITH EVERY TOM, DICK AND HARRY AND YOUR FREAKING COUSIN FOR CRYING OUT FREAKING LOUD!!!!!!!!!!!!! DUDE GET A CLUE! YOUR COUSIN!!!! UH AGAIN, I SAY YOUR COUUUUUUUUUUUUUUSIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NO DUDE YOU NEED TO GET OUT BEFORE SHE GIVES YOU A DISEASE OR SOMETHING.
I DON'T CARE IF YOU WERE ON A DAMN BREAK AT THE TIME SHE SLEPT WITH YOUR COOOOOOOOUUUUUUSINNNNN!!!!!!!!!! YUCK!!!!!! SHE'S NASTY. MOVE ON AND THIS TIME DO IT RIGHT. CUZ KARMA WILL COME BACK AND GET YOU. ALWAYS TRY AND LEARN FROM YOUR MISTAKES. I TRY AND SOMETIMES I SUCCEED AND SOMETIMES I DON'T. AND WHEN I DON'T WELL THAT'S WHAT I GET RIGHT.
GOOD LUCK AND I HOPE YOU WISE UP DUDE AND LEAVE HER. SHE LIES ABOUT YOU, SHE SLEEPS WITH LOTS AND LOTS OF PEOPLE INCLUDING YOUR FAMILY. WHAT NEXT? WHAT DOES SHE HAVE TO DO FOR YOU TO LEAVE HER. I KNOW WHAT IF SHE SLEEPS WITH YOUR BROTHER, MAYBE YOUR FATHER? LEAVE.
2006-06-12 02:23:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's confused and you need to find another fish in the big sea of women. If she's sleeping around a lot she may cheat, I take it your younger so she's sowing the oats just like you should never settle for a g/f until your ready to settle down. Have fun first then find a suitable woman.
2006-06-12 02:19:58 · answer #5 · answered by secretagentman466 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a sl-ut, she's a ho, she's a freak. Got a different boy every day of the week...
Ever heard this song? It reminds me of your girlfriend. You sound young. Find a girl that's not screwing everyone!
2006-06-12 02:20:29 · answer #6 · answered by 4kidsmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing you can do is RUN!!!! i know it sounds harsh but i just got out of one of those. sure you care about her but if she doesn't care enough about you to keep her legs crossed then there really is no point in being with her.
(unless you are not telling us why you are still with her...)
2006-06-12 02:22:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love should be a feeling you want to keep....... she obviously has a problem with keeping her legs shut....... I suggest you give her the pleasure so she doesn't have to do it with someone else......
2006-06-12 02:24:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you want to live like this the rest of your life? if you do then stay with her and marry her...if not......time to move on.
2006-06-12 02:20:28 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just simple works DUMP HER.
2006-06-12 02:19:37 · answer #10 · answered by hauntingskull 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋