my ex-bf / bestfriend,always tells me that he really loves me and willing to leave his gf when she's not yet pregnant. but i have a boyfriend that really loves me so much. but of course we fight sometimes and everytime my boyfriend and i fights i'll just text my bestfriend and tell him about what happened and he'll just go to our house even at 12 midnight..... and of course vice versa... last month, he jusr told me that he's getting married w/ his gf bec she's pregnant and it hurts me so much but i didn't tell him about it... 1 week later i confessed to him what i really feel for him. and he's so happy about it, and told me that i am the one he wants to marry and to be with forever. but the problem is how about he's fiancee and the baby? if ever he'll tell about what he trully feels maybe ther's a bad effect for the baby most especially when t\his fiancee can't accept it..he is willing to support the baby but what if there's something bad happened w/ the baby bec of telling the truth?
2006-06-11 19:00:17 · 6 answers · asked by fherz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
last week
he told me to run away w/ him. but of course if i will only thinks for myself, i'll go with him... but how about my boyfriend? and how about the baby? what if they will blame me if something happened w/ the baby? i told him that he must tell the truth w/ his parents and sisters... but ACCORDING TO HIM, they will only tell him that he'll learned to love her.... but for five years since we broke up, why he still love me? and for 3-4 years thet he's w/ his gf, why i am the one he wants to be with?
last night
i asked him if he's happy right now but i feel so sad bec he answered me, NO... his wedding is two weeks from now? how can i help him? what we'll gonna do? right now, it's like we still have a relationship, a special relationship... and if ever we're together we just do what boyfriends / girlfirends do... and he's still thinking about running away..... i also love my bf for 5 years! but i don't want to lose my bestfriend.... i love him too.... i don't know what t?
2006-06-11 19:24:16 · update #1
the reason why he's marrying that girl is only bec of she's pregnant. if he really love that girl why he's with me very often than his fiancee, even at night... sometimes he's sleeping in our house just to be w/ me... but sex is not involved w/ us i don't want that to happen. i always told him if a will be the one he'll marry i can do that. and he respects me...
but how about our true feelings? i'll let him marry his fiancee but he's the one who doesn't what to if she's not only pregnant he'll not marry her... just last night he told me to runaway but i don't think i can do taht bec i want him to tell all the people involved that he dosn't love that girl. and i am the one he wants to marry... but the girl is pregnant.... what we'll gonnan do? that' reallly a big problem....
2006-06-11 20:17:32 · update #2
yeah that would have alot of an effect on that baby done been there. if you two can just leave the feelings left behind and be close good friends that might be better . neither of you should have put your feelings on hold towards each other till on is bout to start a family a new life and get married ... there is 5 people to worry about here who would get hurt the most you need to be straight up front from now on before its too late again and life just passes on by before you know it ........but then ask him is he marrying her cuz she is pregnant cuz you dont have to get married just cuz your having a baby and so the kid can have his last name only get married if the love is truely there dont get married for all the wrong reasons tell him that that might change it all for ya right there if he can trust his mom or dad they really are perfect to talk to about these kind of things
2006-06-11 19:34:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh thats very unhappy. Maybe that is your destiny. You must marry the individual u like so much. Think approximately what's going to occur on your ex-bf if u marry him he is fiancee cant take it. But if u depart your satisfactory buddy consider approximately what he'll suppose. Think approximately it!
2016-09-09 00:01:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you may miss each other and have feelings for each other but marriage is something else. You should let him make his choice without influencing him. how come you told him that you loved him only when you realise that he is getting married to someone else? don't you think that he did think a lot before making such a decision?
2006-06-11 19:08:11 · answer #3 · answered by MNB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loss of emotion!Trouble awaits u in near future.Beware my friend
2006-06-11 19:05:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you waited too long you have to move on you can't disrupt his plans for marriage because you can't have him... the timing for this was very selfish.
2006-06-11 19:07:22 · answer #5 · answered by D@ R-ti$t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT SOUNDS LIKE A MESS. IT ALSO SOUNDS LIKE YOU ARE NOT SURE WHAT YOU WANT .
2006-06-11 19:08:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋