im in the relationship that make me confused....
he always say he loves me and working to build a good relationship...but he dont call me everyday or night...just spend short time for me and dont show that im important to him...i want to spend whole day and night w/him but always had excuse...i dont understand.i can see in his eyes and feel he cares but i have so many question in my mind that i cant answer alone......
tell me also how do i know if he really likes u or not...its so confusing...pls. help...
2006-06-11 18:57:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to stop what your doing the pressure.
Let him have some distance if you do this and he cares he will wonder why ? where ? is she what's up ? and then if he cares he will come back.
This is a hard thing to take I know this but the aggressor will lose ever time.
Let is mind wonder a male that's cares for another will only wonder when he is in a situation were he don't have the upper hand.
2006-06-17 22:03:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be laying it on a little thick. In my personal experience, I was the dodgy one. My boyfriend always wanted to spend more and more time together, while I was quite happy with little bits at a time. I remember telling him that if we spent more time together, it would make the relationship go sour... but in reality, his overwhelming desire to see me as much as he could, caused me to back away emotionally. It might be hard, but just give him space without telling him you are doing it. See him when he wants to be seen, call him when he wants to be called. He won't always be this way, he's just probably feeling a little crowded at the moment... the moment passes.
2006-06-12 02:03:13 · answer #2 · answered by visionssofaraway 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off eyes don't lie...and you don't have to be with someone 24/7 to be in a relationship...not sure how old you are but you need time for yourself too and if your only concentrating on your boyfriend then your forgetting about yourself and the fun things you can be doing with your friends
2006-06-12 02:02:37 · answer #3 · answered by sexytwin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get busy and do other things that are important,and he will make sure that the next time, he has time for u
2006-06-12 02:02:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't ever really know what's going on in someone else head.... jus go with how you feel logically. because what may feel good to you may not always be good for you
2006-06-12 02:03:30 · answer #5 · answered by D@ R-ti$t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋