how do i get out of a child abuse situation?

Question

I can't do this anymore, I'm scared and didn't know where else to go.. what do i do?

Answer 1

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Answer 2

I would strongly recommend calling the child abuse hot-line @ 1-800-4-A-CHILD. It seems really scary to do that, but if you are being abused you need help now. I was a social worker for a long time and I helped people who were being hurt get to be safe. Lots of times the court can make the person who is hurting you leave the house and you can stay with the person who takes care of your, if that is not possible than sometimes they let you go live with family, but if that is not safe either you could get to go to a foster home. I have never met a foster parent that was not super cool. The court will order that the person who is hurting you stop and get psychological help. Lots of times people who hurt their kids are on drugs or have a lot of psychological issues and they don't realize what they are doing is wrong. YOU DO NOT DESERVE TO BE HURT. Tell a teacher or counselor at your school and call the police if you are being hurt right now. I am sorry that you had to go through this. It sucks. Please call the child abuse hot-line or talk to a counselor at school. You deserve to be safe and taken care of.

Answer 3

I feel really bad for you. If you seriously need help go to the police and file a police report or call 911. I need more information. Are you the one being abused? Or, is your child being abused? It doesn't matter which one is being abused. Someone is and that is evil. You have to get away from this situation immediately. If you are being abused and your child is permitted to see this abuse, do you think this is a healthy environment for your child to be raised in??? NO. Immediately get your child out of there. Find a friend who will take you in for awhile or a shelter. I do not know what state you live in but the Department of Children and Family Services can definitely help you.
DO NOT continue to take this abuse. Get out and get out now! Please take my advice.

I hope and pray that everything works out for you. Good Luck and May God Bless You.

Answer 4

If you are the one being abused and you are a minor, talk to someone at your school (a teacher, counselor, or principal) They are obligated by law to report it and find help for you. If you do not want to talk to anyone at school because you are afraid it will get out and your classmates will find out, go to the nearest hospital and talk to any doctor or nurse. They too are obligated, by law, to report it and get you help. You could also go to the nearest police department and talk to any police officer or any Department of Human Services. Another thing you cn do is look in the beginning of the phone book. One the second page you will find a telephone numberfor Child Abuse-Neglect Reports. I have an 800 number you can call. 1-800-452-1999

If you are over the age of 21 and are in an abusive situation or know of a loved one who is being abused, talk to the police. You can also go to any church and get the name and address of a secure place to go and hide. An 800 number for Adult Abuse-Neglect is 1-800624-8404

Either way, DO IT NOW! Don't wait another second.

Take care.

Answer 5

Tell a teacher or police man straight away... If you have just been sexually abused thats the time to do it.

Whoever is doing it is NOT good no matter who they are even parents, mum, dad, priest teachers brothers etc...

You own them nothing and they don't love you, they hate you and its not good to do what they say even if they say god says so or it says so in the bible.

If you are in serious danger or they want to do sex stuff with you and you can't get away... get a knife or metal pen.

If a guy is abusing you, get in a position where you can look like you are gouing to suck their willy if thats what they want you to do... then when they dont' expect bite as hard as you can around their balls getting teeth behings and dont let go... But rip your head back and shake your head as hard as you can trying to bit them off.


And hard and as painful as you can get... if you dont rip them off.

Youthey should be in so mach pain you can run away if not take the pen/knife, stick it in their eyes as they proably wont be able to stop you and stick it in the back of their neck (the spinal column) as hard as you can repitidly in a gap between the bones (if you can break it you should paralsise someone so they cant move or if a knife stick it in the big arteries in their neck.


Dont warn you will do this as they will take the weapon off you...

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This is a very very serious thing to do, it is not a joke and not to do if your parents are strict or someone else is...

It will most likely kill someone in lots of pain and if they were not abusing you you would be down for murder... This is NOT how you fight in school...

If you do this you must be sneaky and as nasty as possible you can't do it half way or stop if they beg you too.

Get to the police if you can first, or phone them, or if in school tell the teachers, or tell a friend to or child line.


www.Childline.org.uk

08001111 if in england.


Can someone post the us equivalent?


Im expecting someone to report this. To yahoo take this to the police. I have only posted this as something of an extreamly violent nature as believe this person may be in very serious trouble and its how a child can fight an adult. Please investicate it before it occurs.

Answer 6

First, you better make damn sure it is true! Don't make something up and ruin a persons lfe because your being a baby over not getting your way or something you want.

Now, if this is for real, you need to to go your parent who is not abusing you. If both are abusing you, or you think one knows about the other, I would say go to a teacher. But since school is out, go to a friends parent. They will call the police for you.

Answer 7

If you are scared right this minute...if you think someone might hurt you right now...call the police.

If you think you're okay for now, talk to the counselor at school. They may want to connect you with Child Protective Services (CPS). DON'T be afraid of that! You didn't do anything wrong, and CPS mostly just talks to your parents and you to help sort things out. You'll hear lots of bad stories about them, but don't believe them. They're mostly told by abusers. You did the right thing by coming here....great idea! :o)

Answer 8

If you are being abused then you need to realise that no matter what your abuser says to you it is not your fault and this is not acceptable behaviour. A person who is being abused often feels that they are to blame or are scared of telling people because they will get their abuser into trouble, but if a person is abusing you they will recieve help and they will be prevented from abusing others. No one will shun you or blame you, you are an innocent who is in need of safe and secure environment, you deserve this and it is your right. Take care and be strong x

Answer 9

Talk to someone you trust about it! Talk to a friend, a teacher, or a family memeber who will help you. If it has been going on a long time then you should tell the police... don't wait any longer! It isn't fair that you get abused. So tell someone and take action against it! Hope you get the advice you need.

Answer 10

By no means do you call 911; those people can't do anything except ask the abuser if it is true. You need to have proof and go to see a clergymen. At least the abuser will not be informed, as their rights under American law. The clergyman can get you in contact with the right professionals who, by the way, have access to special residences. But if the 911 people get involved, the law requires the abuser as to the location.
Be careful.

Answer 11

Who is being abused? You? If thats the case TALK to someone about it-open up and you'll be protected.On the other hand if you are the abuser,good that u realise its a barbaric act-own up and get help-shows its the problem within u that makes u do all that.