I WAS WORKIN WITH HIM IN AN OFFICE
JUST 2 WEEKS TO FALL IN LOVE WITH HIM
I DON'T KNOW WHY
HE'S NOT VERY HANDSOME
HE'S ALWAYS BUSY.... ANGRY ...
AND ABOVE ALL................... HE'S MARRIED
I MAD ABOUT HIM
HE LOVES ME TOO
HE'S SAD BECAUSE HIS WIFE
SHE'S VERY CUTE
BUT WHAT CAN I DO ............ ICAN'T 4GET HIM
I TRIED SO HARD
I GO TO COLLEGE
I HAVE OVER THAN 1000 FRIENDS BOYS AND GIRLS
BUT ....
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2006-06-11 17:51:38 · 18 answers · asked by CUTE_WHISPER 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hmm yes it happens. it has hapened with me a lot many times.
well, first of all, tell me this very simple question....... did he tell you he loves you or have u just thought that he loves you? coz that's important, if he has told you that he loves you then i'll come to it after wards. but if he has not, then probably u need to sit back and analyse.\
if he has told you that he loves you, well, then its better coz its 2 way. talk to him then. sit together and try to find a solution. a married man will tell you that he loves you, if and only if, he is not hapy with his relationship. well in that case, there might be a way out for u guys. if wants to start a relationship with you, that is ok.
if he has not told you, well then you need to sit back, relax a little and think. coz u can't make some one love you just coz u do. trust me. what i'm saying here is solely out of experience. the more you'll make the other person want to love you, the more tense will be your days and the more sleeplesss will be ur nights. its no use dear. there are plenty of boys out there. i'm sure you will definately find ur right man in one of them. don't worry it won't be that tough at all, just a couple of days that's all. then you will be bright and sunny, as ever!
i would suggest that u talk to him about ur feeling if and only if it is two way.
otherwise its really no use to make ur self suffer dear. tell urself that you need to treat urself better and not make urself suffer!
life is too long and the world is too small......u never know what's around the corner.
take care,
good luck!
2006-06-11 18:03:37 · answer #1 · answered by sunny98012 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better divert your attention to another guy who is not married. Your love for this married man is something that you have to get over with because you will destroy a family. Even if he says that he loves you too, you should not give in to him for the two of you to have an illicit affair. That will bring you nowhere but to the field of broken hearted people. And isn't it more peaceful and divine to love someone who is not yet committed to anyone else?
Look around you and try to see other men with more qualities than what he possessess. Discover someone who may be wanting you to be his girl, only he hasn't shown you his feelings. I'm sure, Destiny has someone for you to love and cherish forever. If this married man is the one meant for you, Destiny will lead him to your arms. May be, he and his wife will separate and then he will find you to tell you about his feelings once more. But if he is not the one for you, Destiny will lead you to that man's path and the moment you set your eyes on him, you will feel something that you can never explain, and that will be the start of your own love destiny. Good luck.
2006-06-12 01:17:15 · answer #2 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really understand why people always want what they can't have. When was it you decided that you weren't worthy of someone better. Try putting yourself in his Wife's shoes and try to imagine what it would be like if you found out that your schlub of a Husband cheated on her with someone from his office. You say he isn't very handsome which is neither here or there, but he is angry and busy all the time sounds like he could possibly be abusive too. Is that what you really want? You're better than that so move on and grow up and start acting like a Human being (I apologize for saying that but I believe what you need is someone to tell it to you straight OK).
2006-06-12 01:02:23 · answer #3 · answered by Crowfeather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand from the entire subject that u dont love that person. You r just attracted even if he does not look good I suppose thats what u said. You require tremendous mind control. Get into some sports activity at least once in a week or try yoga u will that u r a better person.
2006-06-12 00:58:48 · answer #4 · answered by Nit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married men are a big NO-NO!! Wives get kinda crazy when u mess with their husbands! Don't worry I'm sure u'll find someone else who'll wanna marry u then u'll look back and b glad u made the right choice. N u won't have to worry about karma catching up with u!
2006-06-12 01:00:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
I say you should look elsewhere.If he has a family he will always hold that against you for breaking up his family. And if he does this to his wife what will he do to his "mistress"?
There are plenty of single guys out there even divorced men so start looking. Good luck to you
Michael
2006-06-12 00:59:57 · answer #6 · answered by mderita@snet.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As easy as it seems to fall in love- keep in mind that he is a married man. You need to think about the wife of this guy...imagine how you would feel if it was your husband cheating on you. Don't be selfish sexually.
2006-06-12 00:57:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get another job. He's married! You need to get yourself out of his proximity and hang out with one of those 1000 boys, I'm sure one of them is will be better for you.
2006-06-12 22:57:15 · answer #8 · answered by kendo3376 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. Be ready for many ups and downs. Do you love that wild of a roller coaster ride?
2006-06-12 02:09:07 · answer #9 · answered by Spu5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with a different person and leave him alone or you will reck a relationships trust me on this they might put you on the show called cheaters dont do it seriously
2006-06-12 00:59:15 · answer #10 · answered by Nellie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋