What do you do when everything goes wrong in your life?

Question

What do you do when everything in your life goes wrong. When there seems no hope of surviving the slings and arrows that come one after the other without stopping. You think everything is going to be alright and then another hit comes and another and another?Do you just give up ...put your hands up and say....Im going to k... myself?

Ive tried God for years but he just doesnt listen and things get worse as each year passes

Answer 1

Forget god man, whether he exists or not, he's probably got bigger fish to fry. Sorry, but thats life. If the going gets tough, you've just got to brave it. If I were you, if life seems crap, change it. Move to a new place, do something you've never done before. If you've got a bit of money, and are able, buy a backpack, a lonely planet, and a plane ticket to Thailand. I've travelled a lot, and I've never found a place better for the soul. Going by yourself is fine, because everyone is friendly there. I think its the law!
Or, try skydiving, or bungee jumping. Something a bit scary that give you a rush and makes you feel that little bit more adventurous for doing it. The bible won't help, it'll just make you feel like a sinner for feeling sorry for yourself. Killing yourself is only justified if you have a horrible terminal disease with no cure. Otherwise, remember, theres a lot of fun stuff to do in life, how much of it have you done?? Find something you've always wanted to do, and do it. Even if it takes a little work, it gives you something to work towards.
Now stop being bloody miserable and get on with it!

Answer 2

'Sidge' is right on track, forget God , that path will only turn you into a religious nutter, you may be able to convince yourself that pray is the answer, but you really already know it isn't!
Another answer also had the right idea, get more self confidence and take it on the chin, you've already taken quite a bit of flack, you can learn to take more and just laugh at it ! It may not seem like much consolation, but there really are many people worse off than yourself, they are some how coping, ask yourself how they are doing it.
If you have no friends get some, do not join any daft pray groups, they are mental , join some groups that chat to each other on the net, that could open up a new life, there is nothing to beat talking about your own problems and sharing others problems , even over the net!
But whatever, pull your bloody finger out and get on with life!!
And good luck to you!!

Answer 3

Its a natural human tendency to give up hope when failures follows one after another in life.But if you are thinking all these failures as a lesson to learn for your future life and if you try to change the similar types of situations again I think you can overcome all those struggles you are facing. It will be better to share your problems with somebody very close to you and face them in a different way.
Killing ourself is never a solution for the problems we are facing.The life is filled with ups and downs like happiness and sorrows.You always believe that your bad time is going to end and now its the beginning of a happy life.There are millions of people living in this world with acute pain and diseases which does not have any cure or solutions.They are just waiting for the sound of death.But I have seen lots of these types of people who enjoy their short life without bothering about their end.A positive thinking always giv you freshness and the will to face the consequences. There is hardly anybody in the earth without any problems in their entire life.
We should learn lot of things from animals and insects who never give up hope even after frequent failures in their attempt they make.eg ants.
So I am sure you will achieve best results in life if you view life in a positive attitude with a smile.Never bother much about the setbacks and failures in past and think about a wonderful future.Best of luck....

Answer 4

i know telling you that you should be thankful you still have life doesnt seem much to you, and saying dont give up hope sounds shallow, but I'm afraid thats all I have to help you. sometimes we just have to keep on beleiving where there is doubt. each day you are alive to se another, try to help others, truely there is a joy in helping others, it will bring joy to you and maybe you can take you focuss elsewhere and when you do eventually look, you life will be filled with more joy
never give up on God, he'll never give up on you

Answer 5

You're not alone. Life is full off ups and downs. Trouble is you don't know that you're down until things pick up. You don't know that your on top until things go down! Never give up. I feel like you often. I lost my job, my wife left me, I suffered a stroke, all within a year. I couldn't walk, talk or write. Things are not fine yet, but are slowly getting better. Just accept whatever happens and make the most of what comes your way. Good Luck.

Answer 6

No you pray, you ask him to help you, you keep trying. You never stop, whatever you do don't give up. And everything is going to be ok. Try to look at everything from another point of view. maybe everything is working out for the best. Good Luck.

Answer 7

No you dont give in! You do something about it. Thats just what you want to do and even writing for hel[p on this shows that you want to do something to change it all....and change it so that you start getting the life you want...so that you start getting those feelings that you long for...so that you feel that success you want..not just in one aspect of your life but all of them...your relationships,feelings,physical...just in every way.If you want to get a lot of joy,fun,success and pleasure and ultimately start living the life you dream of then...you need to fix it so that your mind,body and actions are geared to producing the life you want....All possible! And it doesnt take any of that "Looking into the past"...Its now that counts!
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Answer 8

When everything goes wrong in your life, do keep that hope nothing is forever. That's why it shines today and tomorrow it rains. Everyday when you wake up feel your heart when its beating just know life is much worthy than everything.Go to the graves and see that silence then you will know what it looks like or means when one is dead.

Answer 9

When all seems lost, remember God is there for you. All you have to do is ask Him for help. He will hear you, and things will change. Maybe not overnight, but they will get better. Knock and the door will open, ask and you shall recieve.

Answer 10

don't pray. praying is for losers. you've got to try and live despite everything. you never give up, because it's the same for everybody else and we didn't and you shouldn't either. there's always good moments as well as bad and you have to live with it.