What is the best way?

Question

i'm asking on behalf of my fren. she is getting married soon. she and her fiance have decided to hav a child maybe a year later after their marriage. what the best way to avoid pregnancy other than condom. when to have sex after and before period to avoid pregnancy. how to conceive and have a baby in a specific month that we wanted.

Answer 1

Using a condom is the best way to have sex and avoid pregnancy. Permanent contraceptions will not allow the female to get pregnant again. If your friend is afraid of the husband's condom slipping off during intercourse, it is encouraged to wear 2 layers of it.

There's also contraceptives such as spermicides in the form of tablets or gels. They are to be placed in the vagina before intercourse, and are used with a diaphragm (female condom) or condom to prevent fertilization. There are also contraceptive pills which contain a hormone, progesterone, which prevents ovulation.

Next, the method you proposed is highly unstable, as irregularities in the menstrual cycle can be due to stress, mental fatigue, an unbalanced diet, emotional disturbances, illness... However, this method does provide some form of prevention, and its better than nothing.

I believe the period you mentioned there is the ovulation period, which often occurs on the 11th to 17th day of the menstrual cycle. Avoid these days if you don't want to get pregnant. The first day starts when the female realizes that she menstruates; which is when blood comes out from the vagina. Menstruation usually lasts for 5 days and I suggest that you have sex only for the first 10 days. (to be safest) After the 17th day, the womb is prepared for an implantation (caused by fertilization) and I think that in this period there is still a chance to conceive.

Next, a baby usually stays in a womb for 8-9 months. Therefore, if you want to give birth to a baby in December, try having sex during the 11th to 17th day of march/april. That should help. Remember, a few days after intercourse, visit the pharmacy and purchase those pregnancy kits to test for pregnancy.

Good luck!

Answer 2

Well, if they're not married yet, that means there's still time to start that birth control pill. Assuming we're trying to schedule that for a year.
It'll take about 30 days to really take effect, and it may take up to a year to conceive after STOPPING. The pill, used in conjunction with condoms, is something like 99% effective, I think.
If your friend has a regular 28 day cycle, she can expect to ovulate ABOUT 12-15 days after the first day of her last period, I think. That's not always reliable, though. They have ovulation predictors at the store, so she could always go invest in one to calculate her most fertile period.
Tell her to go talk to her doctor about what pill may be right for her, and she can get a prescription pretty quickly & easily. Double up with condoms, avoid the second week AFTER the period, and keep that ovulation monitored, and they should have no problem planning well.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

The pill has worked just fine for my husband and me. For extra protection, take the pill and use a condom too. Don't have sex during your period, or be sure to use a condom, as you are off the pill then. Same goes for when you are on certain meds, like antibiotics.

Answer 5

Birth Control - Condoms, Pills, IUD, Diaphragm, etc

Answer 6

Ok, two words: Birth control. It's really simple. Talk to a doctor or fertility specialist.

Answer 7

First you said your friend than you said we...hmmmmm don't be ashmed of asking questions regarding birth control!!

Answer 8

go see a doctor and ask him/her these questions, not the general public

Answer 9

have they asked the docter yet?

Answer 10

good-luck