2006-06-11 16:12:19 · 21 answers · asked by Meg 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
It may sound hard to believe, but when I was 14 I realized how bad (morally and psychologically) masturbation was for me and I decided I wanted to quit. It wasn't easy, and it took a lot of sacrifice and dedication, but I quit. When you masturbate, you trade one bad thing for another. You will receive sexual pleasure true, but right after you masturbate comes a feeling of intense loneliness that it hard to describe. It hurt my relationship with God, and although it sounds weird I would advice you not to get started masturbating. It is very easy to become addicted, and once you do you start wanting more. You want to ACTUALLY have sex with another person, not just masturbate. You'll be back at square 1, wanting a sexual fufillment you can't have. And you do choose to have sex, you will inevitably find yourself comparing your partner to the one you have in your masturbation fantasies. When you masturbate YOU ARE HAVING SEX WITH AN IMAGINARY PERSON. If you can resist the temptation to masturbate now, you will become a stronger person and having a more fufilling relationship with your future spouse.
2006-06-11 16:23:17 · answer #1 · answered by Texas Toast 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Masturbation is not a bad thing. There is nothing wrong with doing it. That being said...there is a time and place for everything. If you want to try it go ahead, but don't let anyone pressure you into doing something you are not ready for. Also, you friend may be pushy because she is afraid that she will be an outcast for confiding in you if you do not share in similar activites. Regardless of what you deside to do, make sure that you do not make your friend feel like she is doing something wrong or that you think less of her for choosing to masturbate.
2006-06-11 23:23:52 · answer #2 · answered by akp683 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead...it is healthy both physically and mentally. It is NOT a sin to do so, and your hand will not fall off either. It is a good way to relieve tension and should be practiced regularly...toys can be fun and helpful as well. one of my wife's favorites is the "Pocket Rocket"
Learn how to do masturbation and where the points that are the most satisfying and relieving and don't be in a big hurry either...take your time and enjoy doing it...all your life long...married or single. and even with friends sometimes...
2006-06-12 00:01:32 · answer #3 · answered by pinelake302 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meg, you are new here. We were all new at one time. You wrote," I love to laugh and have fun their isn't much i wouldn't do for a good laugh". You have come to the right place and your question should evoke some chuckles.
The last I heard, 97% do and the remaining 3% lie. The important thing is where and when; it's a private matter.
Are you going to ask the cute guy at church to help?
Be careful. Have fun here at Answers.
2006-06-11 23:18:13 · answer #4 · answered by valcus43 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, she masturbates at school, on the bus, during dinner?
Second, she wants you to masturbate her or just participate in a mutual jerk session?
Need specifics.
Masturbation is personally. It is your choice. You should have a strong enough moral fiber to answer that on your own.
2006-06-11 23:15:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL why the hell would ur friend want you to masturbate? also, what is with all you people saying masturbation is something personal and blah blah blah, i masturbate cuz i like how it feels! nothing else!
2006-06-11 23:33:11 · answer #6 · answered by Chas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you decide that you want to. Then and only then is the correct answer. Do not do it because she wants you to. Be yourself. Don't ever let your friends run your life. If they try to, then they aren't really your friends.
2006-06-11 23:24:53 · answer #7 · answered by bettyboop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
masturbation is made to be a personal experiencesuch as takin a shower or shittin (ask ur self should u sh*t becauze my friend wants to or because i need to) if u dont want to u dont hav to tell her u want to her to stop pissin and see her reaction
2006-06-12 00:28:11 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants you to do it with her? And if thats the case, is she into you? Either way, masterbation is something that has to be personel before you can share it, you have to be comfortable with your own body and love yourself.
2006-06-11 23:17:20 · answer #9 · answered by munkypoo1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with masturbation...after all you are only making love with someone you love...yourself
2006-06-12 00:13:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋