I am 44, single, and have come into a new exclusive dating relationship that I am very happy about. I have many good things going on for me and my two kids right now. My girlfriend can only seem to dwell on the fact that I haven't spent any time with her. She is married and runs a business from her home. We had a recent arguement about how I spend my time with her and now she will not speak to me. I have tried several different ways to communicate with her......... I've reached the point where to hell with our relationship.......have know each other for several years. Please advise........
2006-06-11 16:04:08 · 9 answers · asked by Janet 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
clarfication!......I am a single female dating a male and my best friend (female) and I are not communicating.......anyone care to re answer? Thankyou, in advance!
2006-06-11 18:50:53 · update #1
What do you expect from someone who is married? Of course she is going to be demanding and want your time when she can be with you on her time. This is not a good thing to teach your children at all. I do hope you realize that is a relationship that is doomed and your children need someone who can and will want to be in their life.
Children should be first in your life and it sounds like your a wonderful father, but remember they don't need to be around someone who can only be there with them part time. Find a woman who can and want to be with them. Best Of Luck
2006-06-11 16:14:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
You said your girlfriend is married...and she is complaining about you not spending time with her? Is she serious?! She's married - you shouldn't be with her at all until she is ready to get a divorce and be an available single woman. If I were you I would cut it off and tell her to figure out what she wants because she can't have her cake and eat it too.
2006-06-11 23:15:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are doing with a married woman in the first place? Bad example for your children. You need to forget her and find a divorced or single one.
2006-06-11 23:09:45 · answer #3 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you should tell her how you feel and that you want to spend some hang out time with her but you have been busy. Maybe plan a day that you can go shopping or something.
2006-06-11 23:11:41 · answer #4 · answered by Lookinstr8over 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that your "girlfriend" is married but "dating" you should clue you in to the fact that she is selfish and inappropriate as a partner for anyone. Dump her and get someone who isn't an ******.
2006-06-11 23:11:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have tried to communicate with her and she's not responding then what can you do? Just go on your way, and she'll probably come round eventually.
2006-06-11 23:11:54 · answer #6 · answered by keri gee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She cheated with you, what makes you think you are different? Stop wasting your time, look what happened to Britney Spears!
2006-06-11 23:14:55 · answer #7 · answered by ktterdfurguson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are dating a lying whore and you are concerned. hahahaha
you are a lonesome loser type but the funniest thing is all the simpathetic answeres your getting
2006-06-11 23:16:51 · answer #8 · answered by ricosuarve 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with I see u "Shes MARRIED " BUT YOU HAVE TO EXPLAIN You re self EXCUSE MEEEE I don't think sooo
2006-06-11 23:15:36 · answer #9 · answered by frogger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋