I live with my sister. I am ready to move out. She found out about a situation I had with a friend.(It wasn't a violent or physical thing) I regret her ever finding out now she does not want him over. Shouldn't that be my decision whether I have him over or not. Me and him have been through a lot and he has been there for me through my family problems. She is too opionated and I can not stand it. She thinks I am sad over him but I am sad because I regretting talking to her and how she is affecting my life. I'll be 21 soon, I should have a right to say what I would like. What should I do.
2006-06-11 16:00:45 · 10 answers · asked by Making Changes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Man, I know what you mean. Sometimes family can be so annoying cauz you didn't pick them :(
I think you should try to move out as soon as possible if you're unhappy. And I don't believe it's fair for her to not allow your friend to come over. I mean yeah, it's her house, but she could be much nicer about it. Just because it's her house I don't think that gives her the right to control who your friends are.
2006-06-11 16:26:05 · answer #1 · answered by heatherscash 1 · 7⤊ 3⤋
You want to tell/confide in your family, but, a word of caution; when you do tell your family alot of your personal business, they have a tendency to "judge" what you do with that person. They probably only want the best for you but sometimes overstep their boundaries. Try talking to your sister, and let some time go by before making any decisions. In the future don't spill your guts.
2006-06-11 23:07:47 · answer #2 · answered by jeep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you should move out!! Duh!! But yes you really should have a say on if you want him over there or not...but you have to think it's her house to and she should have a say on who can come over. I think you should sit her down and be like "I need you to just listen then you can talk"...then explain that you are OK with that guy now and that you should have some say on weather or not he can come over. You need tot tell her that you and that guy are OK now and that you are friends again.
2006-06-11 23:05:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just move out? Hell, you are almost 21. Siblings sometimes come on a little strong when they are only trying to protect you. Good luck.
2006-06-11 23:04:07 · answer #4 · answered by Nagitar™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave or get a job to get out the house more often while finding your own apartment you don't actually have to live in her house.
2006-06-11 23:03:34 · answer #5 · answered by Diamond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well whos house is it? u or ur sis? if its hers she has the right to say who and who cannot come over. sorry. :(
but move out asap if shes causing u stress. then u'll be bale 2 do whatever the heck ya wanna!
2006-06-11 23:03:41 · answer #6 · answered by Jam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's her house. Bottom line. If your sister doesn't want him there, there must be a good reason, sisters KNOW when you aren't happy!
2006-06-11 23:08:03 · answer #7 · answered by ktterdfurguson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like one my friends......well....if its financially possible..move out...you lead your own life and your mistakes are your own...but since i dont know what the situation is.....if theres any sence in what she says maybe listen to her....she may be right in some ways...
2006-06-11 23:06:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to stay out of it
2006-06-11 23:03:55 · answer #9 · answered by suepooh23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well talk to her. u do have a right.
2006-06-11 23:04:51 · answer #10 · answered by ERICA J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋