My friends and I had a 3 way and now the both hate me. and are blaming it all on me. what do i do...?

Question

*******... i feel really bad about it too. but IM the one that has to apologise/talk. what the **** should i do or say??

Answer 1

Sounds like you're screwed. (no pun intended)

Answer 2

I've never heard of a threesome that was a good experience. This usually always happen, usually jealousy plays a part. Look at it this way, if this trash went down, then they weren't the "friends" you thought they were, suck it up as a lesson learned, and in the future try to choose both your friends and your sexual activities with this new lesson in mind.... you can't undo what's already be done, just find a way to live with it. You can't make other people appologize and you can't make other people forgive, only you can do those things for yourself. Maybe you should just let the other parties know how you feel about the situation in a non-threatening way. Such as, "I feel really bad about what happened and how it's affecting our friendship. Is there anything you'd like to share with me? Is this something we can work through?" If they are truly friends, they won't let one night of debauchery get in the way of friendship. Good luck!

Answer 3

Well first of all a three way among friends is not good. Now you see what happens. Someone get's pissy and doesn't want to talk. Well it's not all your fault.

Let's say you initiated it in the first place, it still wouldn't be all your damn fault. I mean who in the hell told them to listen in the first freaking place.

If I were you girl, I'd just move on! With friends like that you certainly don't need enemies! They sound like losers to me, find better friends. And no more three ways with your friends.

You've learned first hand that sleeping with your friends, makes them no longer your friends. I don't know why that is, but like 90 percent of the time, that's what happens.

Good luck and don't say anything to them. Ignore them, like they chose to ignore you!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 4

I don't understand....first you say you feel bad and then you sound irritated about being the one who has to apologize.....if you truly feel bad about what happened then you would apologize and do what ever takes to save your friendships.....sounds as if you need to cool off for a while....get you some rest and when you wake up in the morning suck up to your friends and then get on with your life....life is to short for silly feuds... friendships are always worth saving

Answer 5

I assume they are in a relationship, and you were the third person brought in? Just give it time. And learn from this - never have a three way with people who are in a committed relationship.

Answer 6

What are they blaming on you? Oh, were you the one who wanted to do 3-way? Because if you are, I would be blaming you too (if you got me preganant anyway). But if they're the ones who started it (and that's just SICK to do 3-way) tell them to shut the .... up. Shoot...

Answer 7

You shouldn't do or say anything why would you guys betray your friendship by having sex any way their is a barrier that you all crossed and i don't think you can come back from that.

Answer 8

Had a 3some or a bad three way call.

Answer 9

I feel bad for you but you HAD to have seen that coming.

Answer 10

dont say anything and dotn talk to them. did you have fun in the 3 way?

Answer 11

they were involved in it too, i would just let them know it is not a one way street, and in this case it took three to tango... maybe they were just looking for a way to not talk to you