i am crazy about this guy but he is married they dont have any kids the have been married for 1 year and 5 months but they have been seperated fro 6 months the only reason that they havent got a divorc is because they cant afford it.but theyare saving up for it.i am with this guy and we are happy but i dont know if that is write or not please help me if you have any more questions then please write me back.what do i do??
2006-06-11 15:32:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NO ITS NOT... IM DEALING WITH A GIRL LIKE YOU WITH MY HUSBAND.. AND IT SUCKS... BACK OFF...PLEASE RESPECT THE OTHER WOMEN, IT COULD BE YOU SOMEDAY
2006-06-11 16:07:43 · answer #1 · answered by girlyjunk1 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are the rebound girl. The beginning of any relationship is the honeymoon phase. Fact of the matter he is still someone's husband. If you move on or move realllllllllllllly slow do you think you would lose out and he will find someone else, if the answer is yes, then you already know what you should do with this married man. If he really wants you and really wants to pay for his divorce he can get a second job. Besides, if they both wand a divorce it is not that expensive.
2006-06-11 15:43:15 · answer #2 · answered by tatajama3@verizon.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this, but if he can't afford a divorce, when there are no children/property involved, he needs to get another job. He is not equipped financially to support a wife/family.
And I don't mean to sound mean, but separated is still married. Don't belittle yourself by being available to him until he gets his life together.
The number one reason for divorce in America, is arguments about, or lack of money. Also, differences in spending/saving styles.
You certainly don't want to become one of the statistics.
2006-06-11 15:39:15 · answer #3 · answered by dixie_til_i_die 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say leave your fling alone. He is using you to get what he can't get from his wife. Don't know how spiritual you are, but adultry is not right. If he can't afford a divorce what makes you think he could support you, then what if you end up pregnant? You only making things worst for yourself and for him in the future. What ever you do if you keep this going don't get serious until those papers are signed. Enjoy your fling, but keep it that way!
2006-06-11 15:38:24 · answer #4 · answered by KLove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer to this question because you are a smart woman. You are just trying to convince yourself that in some way it may be okay to comtinue this relationship because of the feelings you have for him.
Bottom line.............it aint over till it's over. When you see the divorce papers in his hands, then I would believe that the relationship is over. Until then, I would stay clear.
2006-06-11 16:40:22 · answer #5 · answered by heartwhisperer2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to back off until the divorce is official. He is still married and there is always a chance that he might get back with his wife. Wait until his divorce is final and they pursue a relationship with him. Be honest with him and tell him how you feel and that you need to see that he is divorced before you can move on in your relationship with him.
2006-06-11 15:35:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay away until the divorce is final. You don't know if he is just stringing you along to get some action on the side. Your best bet is to wait until all the dust is settled.
2006-06-11 15:43:56 · answer #7 · answered by butterflykisses427 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop and think about what you are doing before you actually do it. Where does everthing leave you when they mysteriously get back together. Then you don't have no one you need to evaluate things before you start about falling in love.
2006-06-11 15:39:40 · answer #8 · answered by Diamond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
until the divorce is final, he's still a married man!
2006-06-11 15:42:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he would'nt be with you if he loved her and such a short marriage surely indicates they made a mistake so I would say go with it if you are happy and try to get the diovorce
2006-06-11 15:37:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋