i cheated and lied on my husband with my ex. he said he will stay with me but I have to go with his "Its my way or the highway" thinking. and if he wants to do he is gonna do it whether i like him to or not. what should i do??? Please help!!!
2006-06-11 15:30:25 · 11 answers · asked by vegasgirl182005 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell your husband that you are sorry for what you did and won't do it again. He needs to forgive you and trust you. Your indiscretion doesn't give him the right to run the marriage and do whatever he wants whenever he wants.
Tell him that you would like to go to marriage counseling. He has to understand that he needs to forgive you - and in forgiving you he can't be treating you as if you are a lesser partner in the marriage.
2006-06-11 15:34:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you done hit the highway but its at a boiling point time when things add up the thoughts may take a burden on his emotions.
You really cannot blame him if you run around your asking for the cake and eat it to.
You or lucky I would say day by day is how you will live not knowing what to expect.
Thats very uncomfortable when thoughs lay on your mine for your guilt and you just walk back and think it all suppose to be forgotten and forgiven,
But how ever it comes out i wish you the best.
2006-06-17 04:17:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you expect from him. You cheated, he is hurt so he gave you a choice. Put yourself in his situation. Only you can answer this question. Two wrongs do not make a right
2006-06-11 16:21:26 · answer #3 · answered by Making Changes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept the consequence of your mistake. If it is he you love, then live with the lesson of your mistake and thank him for giving you another chance. Show him that you are really sorry and that you really regrets what you have done. But you must analyze and be honest to yourself about everything. Analyze if he really loves you or just want to take revenge. Its good if he still loves you but if not, then you have to go before a lot of hurting things will be done to you.
Good luck. :-D
2006-06-11 15:46:01 · answer #4 · answered by cernad06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek marriage counseling. Its great that he wants to stay with you but he needs to forgive you in order for the marriage to last. Making you his puppet isn't going to make up for you cheating on him.
2006-06-11 15:33:01 · answer #5 · answered by retrodragonfly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
was he like this before you cheated? you might have caused him to get this way, maybe this is the way he feels like he has control....you should talk to him, and explain things. But you got to remember that he might not want to hear it because you cheated on him after all. So you might want to consider councelling, or you might have to go your separate ways....Good Luck.
2006-06-11 15:34:35 · answer #6 · answered by Iowa_Bound 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating is not going to help your relationship in any way! go to a marriage counseler, maybe you can fix everything and make him relize how you feel. i really hope everything works out!
2006-06-11 15:41:36 · answer #7 · answered by penny18_cf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Husband Got a Ticket on Masturbating.....?
2017-03-29 23:48:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just separate..things will only get worse for you..he's ALWAYS gonna accuse you of cheating...which he will have a right to....hopefully the Dong was worth throwing your marriage away..
2006-06-11 15:35:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm dont cheat nxt time
2006-06-11 15:33:41 · answer #10 · answered by Nightchild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋