I've been w/my BF for 4 years now and he's cheated on me more than the two times I know about, I just don't have proof but my intuition tells me he has. Lord knows I've been nothing but good to him and even he says it, so why in the hell does he cheat? I really don't understand.
2006-06-11 15:16:59 · 30 answers · asked by brittany_mo2000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I love him to death and I honestly I really can't see myself with anyone else at this time, I'm not saying we'll be together forever but that's how I feel. He has been my 1 and only lover, so please understand it's not going to be that easy to let him go especially since it's been quite some time since I've know for a fact he's cheated. Then again, like everyone said all men cheat I don't give a damn who you are, so why sacrifice to leave a 4 year relationship that has potential and get involved with someone that will probably do the same thing (9 x's out of 10).
2006-06-11 16:17:07 · update #1
Maybe he's simply more attracted to another woman, but isn't sure he can get her for keeps, so he clings to the secure relationship that you've offer him. In other words, he gets to have his cake, and eat it too! Most girls would have dumped him by now. But as a guy, I'd prefer to mind my own business. I'm stayin' outta this one!
2006-06-11 15:26:05 · answer #1 · answered by Road Trip 3 · 6⤊ 1⤋
honey have you ever heard of the grass looks greener on the other side of the hill. Unless you want to live like this you need to get out if someone cheats once they will cheat again. I'm not saying that it is just men both sex's will do this so why put up with it. I have watch people do it on and off for the last few years and they go to the next one and they say I have found the one and they end up cheating on the new one. so why but yourself through that if you know he has cheated and he has broken your trust then what kind of relationship can you have? Trust is something if it is broken it is hard to get back. Good luck
2006-06-11 15:26:08 · answer #2 · answered by liza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I caught my ex on the floor and his employers. So I punched his *** in the nose and got rid of him. You can tell on their faces cause a look says it all. So my advice to you is get rid of the **** head and find a better guy. "Once a cheater always one". It's hurts for a while, but with friends and a social activity you will bounce back. Men do cheat so they can feel that they are wanted. Sometimes they feel that their is no love and attention in their lives and some do it to feel younger. I hope this helps. Good luck to you girl.
2006-06-11 15:29:39 · answer #3 · answered by Jason L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Infidelities can ruin a relationship, but from past experience, a marriage is one sacred bond that two must really understand when they make that commitment. Maturity and understanding that when you say I do you did.
Now on the other hand, because most humans are attracted by nature it would be almost hopeless in any situation that he or she doesn't love you simply because they played the field, it is because the field they allowed has played on them. (Invitation)
2006-06-11 15:23:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know this guy has cheated on you...he's not worth your time. He will continue to cheat, there are much better men out there, that. Some men cheat because they are just idiots. some men can not commit to one women so they cheat others just don't know how to respect the good they have.
2006-06-11 15:25:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He cheats because he has a low self-esteem and you allow him to treat you this way because you have a low self-esteem. You guys are like hampsters on a wheel. Get out of the cycle, recognize the void in your life a fill it. Good luck.
2006-06-11 15:23:09 · answer #6 · answered by tatajama3@verizon.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because foolish girls like yourself allow bf's to cheat. The first time he cheated you should have been outta there. Period.
If a guy can find someone better than you.....than let him. When you find the guy to whom you are the greatest, you've found your guy.
2006-06-11 15:21:51 · answer #7 · answered by Yourname Here 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They have low self-esteem and want to prove to themselves how lovable they are. It's also a game, kind of like gambling, I think. A kind of passive-aggressive retaliation for some slight they felt from you. I'm sure there are different reasons for different men.
2006-06-11 15:22:47 · answer #8 · answered by aceranne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even want to be with someone that cheats in the first place..don't you think you deserve better for yourself...Get rid of him as long as your going to allow him to get away with it he will just keep cheating..Get yourself someone that deserves your love and friendship..Best wishes
2006-06-11 15:21:53 · answer #9 · answered by preciousmoments1962 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are dogs...i think trying to committ in a relationship when your in your early/mid 20's for a man is almost impossible
2006-06-11 15:25:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋