what should I do if my boyfriend can't ejaculate during sex.?

Question

he does get an erection but that is as far as it gets even if we have phone sex.

Answer 1

Well, you would have to explore the reasons why he cannot ejaculate. Does he have any problem ejaculating when he masturbates? If he does not, then the reason he might not ejaculate during sex is that he is not relaxed enough, not stimulated enough, or nervous/anxious during sex.

Most likely if the two are you are young and just experiencing sex, the reason behind his inability to ejaculate is nervousness and anxiety. The best way to combat the problem is to make each other as calm and relaxed as possible. A long session of foreplay will go a long way to relax him and to get him aroused enough to be ready to ejaculate.

I hope that the two of you are using protection? If not he is probably scared out of his wits that you may become pregnant -- USE PROTECTION EACH AND EVERY TIME YOU HAVE SEX!

He may be anxious about his performance. Reassure him that he doing fine and making you feel good. Ask him what makes him feel good, maybe a different position might be better for him. Also be sure that you pay attention to all parts of his body, not just his penis. Stroke his body, whisper in his ear, talk to him, make him feel good!

I would also check into your boyfriend's health. Does he drink before having sex? Alcohol inhibits sexual activity. Also, he may be taking medication that is depressing his sexual ability as well. He should speak to a doctor.

Though, if the above does not work, then he may need to speak to a doctor who might suggest other methods.

Answer 2

Sure he can. He is just trying to prevent himself from expressing that he loves you.

Answer 3

Go for therapist

Answer 4

Wait until he reaches puberty.

Answer 5

Maybe he is gay .