at the age when u feel comfortable wearing them.
2006-06-11 14:58:42
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answered by Mighty 1
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How old are you? It's not true that people don't know unless you tell them. I had a student in third grade maybe she was 9 who wears them. How do I know? Because I saw it through her pants. Immediately, I shook my head that it was so important to her mother that her daughter at such an early age shouldn't have panty lines when there were so many other things she should be worried about. Notice my thoughts went back to the mother because a mother shouldn't allow such a young girl to wear them. I don't know how young you are, but I wonder if you shouldn't be thinking of "feeling sexy" if you have to ask if you're too young to wear them. If you're asking, you probably are, but your mother should take care of it.
2006-06-11 14:59:49
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answered by Anonymous
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I have no idea why, but the "wearing of thongs" amongst teenage girls seems to be the "in-thing" to do right now. (I suppose it has a lot to do with what teenage girls are seeing on M.T.V., etc.!)Your mom is likely not going to approve unless she's VERY open-minded, and very trusting of the world we live in.. In her teenage years, as in mine, a woman who wore a thong was most likely a "pole-dancer" or a prostitute! I know that times have changed when it comes to this, but most of the older generations don't exactly realize this. Your mom might worry that you've become sexually active or worse, if she finds out what your wearing. If I were you, I wouldn't show any disrespect towards your mom if she doesn't approve of it. It won't help you win the argument, if there should be one. You may want to be prepared to explain the "why's" about the issue, so that you can respectfully present your viewpoint without upsetting her further. She may or may not end up "approving", but at least then she'll know the real reasons for your actions are- and that should be a "relief" of sorts, for her. My 13-year old daughter just started to wear thongs not too long ago, and I can tell you I was horrified, at first, at even the thought. I still have "battles" with her over this issue. She just doesn't get why I won't see it all just from her point of view. She thinks I don't trust her, but I do! It's the "rest of the world", that I worry about- and what kind of things might happen as a result of her running into a "bad person".I don't "like" the idea of her wearing thongs, but I know that she isn't wanting to do it for the "wrong reasons", and I've come to understand that her reasons for "wanting to" are much the same as yours. I do have to mention here that you said that "no one will know" if you don't "tell them". I have to DISAGREE!!. The thin side-straps on a thong fit just above the hip, which bring the back strap up a lot further past the waistline than "normal undergarments"- in essence, thongs can easily be detected from the "rear view"- esp. if you are wearing a "short" shirt, or when "bending over". It's inevitable that others will see your thong (whether they mention this to you or not)- at some point in the future, if it hasn't happened already- and I worry that some people might view this as more an "advertisement" than a "fashion statement". You, at your age, don't really want to draw un-asked for sexual attention (or even harrassment) by others, especially by men who are a lot older than you are, and these "older men" are more likely to NOT know it's a "fashion-thing" not a "sexual-attention-getting-thing". Am I making sense to you? There are people out there who are going to "misread" the reasons why you are wearing a thong (if they see it), and you might find yourself in a really bad or even scary situation- and not know how to handle it, or worse, not have a means of defending yourself against someone with "bad intent", or God forbid, a "psycho"!. At your age, you are very vulnerable to victimization, and it really doesn't help that the "teen mentality" is such that no teen ever thinks "anything bad" will ever happen "to them". Most people that "turn up missing", kidnapped, or dead at the hands of another, ARE teen or pre-teen girls. It's a statistical fact. And the "weirdo" could be the guy "next door" for all you know. You can't be "too careful". All I'm saying is, listen to your mother, she wants to protect you. That's her "job", and she loves you enough to take that job very seriously. If she doesn't approve, it's probably for some of the same reasons I just told you about. And in answer to "how old do you have to be in order to wear thongs"- as long as you are under the age of 18 and still living at home with your parents, you are legally subjected to following their rules as long as their rules cause you no harm. Good luck and God be with you!
2006-06-11 15:25:18
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answered by It's Ms. Fusion if you're Nasty! 7
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What R Thongs
2017-01-17 12:08:12
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answered by baronne 4
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I think about old teenagers. Like 18, 17, not really 16. About 20-18 I say!
2006-06-11 14:57:11
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answered by Anonymous
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i wouldn't let my daughter wear thongs at all till she was 18 and no longer under my jurisdiction. By the way, doctors warn that thongs, along with being unhygenic also cause nasty infections, because you are transferring vaginal discharge and anal secretions when you walk. Therefore, thongs are gross to me.
2006-06-12 12:31:07
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answered by eydieville 4
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She probably worries about you wearing them because she thinks someone else IS seeing them.
Especially if you let them show at the top of your pants, if your young ( high school and younger) it really does send a sleezy message.
2006-06-11 14:59:16
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answered by ? 6
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My child,
How old are you?
Wearing thongs may not always be an appropriate thing to wear for very young females.
Ask your mother, you should.......
may the force be with you!
2006-06-11 14:58:40
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answered by obeone . 1
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im 14 and I don't wear them, personally I think u shouldn't wear them until ur about 18...plus they don't look 2 comfortable!!
2006-06-11 15:03:08
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answered by Anonymous
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17 or up. I am a teacher and I know how horny little boys think. It is not you she is worried about, but prob some obstinate boy. Respect her wishes under her roof.
2006-06-11 14:59:33
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answered by americangalredwhiteblue 1
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