i have a 9 year old, how do i keep my mind off my period and cycle days and just relax and get pregnant
2006-06-11 14:32:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Seconday Infertility is SO very common. You are not alone! And relaxing is easier said that done. If you have been trying for a year...your best bet is to head to your doctor for a basic fertility workup. Find out what is going on for you.
If it's less than a year......hang in there. The average woman takes 6 to 8 months to conceive.
2006-06-11 15:01:50 · answer #1 · answered by NancyO 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest you read the book, _Taking Charge of Your Fertility_ by Toni Weschler. She talks about this precise question--how to take your mind off it. Her suggestion is that you chart your cycle. When you know you are ovulating, you can "try"; other times during the month, you can relax and enjoy your relationship.
Trying to get pregnant will *not* (in and of itself) make you less likely to get pregnant. If anything, it will *improve* your odds. Relaxing is not an effective infertility treatment.
2006-06-12 07:47:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋