would have expected your husband to forgive you, suppose you are really regreatfull
2006-06-11 14:14:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Cheating by either person in a marriage is a touchy situation to get into, its a "your damned if you do and your damned if you dont" kind of thing. 1. you already know what you did was wrong 2. do you really want to put your spouse though the pain of knowing? and on the other hand 1. who already knows and who is going to find out? 2. do you want to take a chance that someone else who found out will tell your spouse? Either way its a no win situation and only YOU can decide what to do: do you love your husband enough to NEVER do it again or will you give in to temptation again? Does your husband love you enough to forgive you? If he does then tell him, give him some space and time to get over it, if he isnt the forgiving type and you do truely love him then let it go and dont do it again. Good luck
2006-06-11 16:21:15 · answer #1 · answered by lilrosebud_14801 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cheat on your partner, you have NO RIGHT to expect or even ask for forgiveness. Your own regrets are just tough luck. You can hope that they will choose to forgive you and if you are a fortunate soul with someone who truly loves you more than words can say, maybe they will be able to accept your stupid actions and forgive you. Otherwise, you should have shown some intelligence in the first place and thought about the effects of your actions before you screwed around.
2006-06-11 21:21:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to look at the issue as to why you cheated in the first place, is it something missing in your marriage with your husband?
You have to face up to responsability
Give you hubby time to take in the news and he will forgive with some help from a counsellor I think that is what you need for now.
2006-06-11 21:20:11 · answer #3 · answered by ozi_nut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I would be ashamed and tell the truth cause thats just who I am. Depends on your morals and values. I would not expect my husband to forgive me. All depends in the end on the one who was cheated on to look past the situation and move on.
2006-06-11 21:19:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, don't cheat.
Second, if you DO cheat, NEVER tell your husband. You will NOT be doing anything except unburdening your guilty conscience. If the other relationship is over, let it die and go on with your life, trying to be a good wife to your husband.
2006-06-11 21:52:15 · answer #5 · answered by elevenhounds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When in a relationship you don't cheat for starters. If he loves you he'll forgive you, but I wouldn't do it again. If he doesn't forgive you, you hurt him to much.
2006-06-11 21:23:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, everybody make mistakes and everybody deserves a second change.
2006-06-11 21:20:44 · answer #7 · answered by bea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i will as i wud do to him if that happens,but men have a hard heart so i do not rely waste my time thinkin bout wat they can do or will do.
2006-06-11 21:20:26 · answer #8 · answered by mimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋