am I wasting my time...1 day she will say we will never be together the next she will say she wants to do family things and we may be together when our daughters born...she is extremely moody and i am a wreck with this whole thing i am too nice to her i do so many sweet things and i dunno what she is thinking i am staying at her place when the babys born we have agreed will this be a bonding time?...also she will try and act like she is dating other people to make me jealous but tells me its none of my business she is due aug 19th I wanna be a family
2006-06-11 14:09:57 · 15 answers · asked by matthew s 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
She is moody from the horomones of pregnancy. Try and stay supportive even when she is wacking out.
2006-06-11 14:12:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If the mother does not want to marry or live with you there is nothing to can do to make her change her mind.
The only thing you can do is and I'm not trying to be nasty is get over it and move on and find someone who will love you.. But at the same time try and be part of your babys life as if you you will always feel that you have missed out on something. Even with all this said no one knows what the future may hold you may even get back together then the little one is born.
2006-06-11 14:17:05 · answer #2 · answered by Mr Hex Vision 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you told her this? Maybe she is just scared. When I was pregnant I was scared crapless! I wanted to be comforted and felt like I couldnt. You say you have done sweet things for her, but have you done something for her everyday? Like tell her she is beautiful? Or rub and kiss her tummy and tell her how amazing she is for carrying your child? Little things everyday make things go a lot better. Pregnant women have a lot of hormones and sometimes dont mean what they say. They get upset at the littlest things. Seeing she is probably about 7-8 months now she is probably feeling like a whale or a balloon. Pregnancy is a hard thing to do. Good luck with your daughter and I hope things turn for the better!
2006-06-11 14:17:11 · answer #3 · answered by Preggo with # 2 YAY! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like Momma needs some growing up to do. Are you sure it's your baby? Sit down and talk with her and let her know how you feel. If she really wants to break up tell her you will not be a puppet on a string. Just be there for the baby and live your own life.
Who wants someone who plays games with your heart. Either she wants you or not (if not, there's somebody else who will). If she has a good man she better soon recognize because there are so many who wouldn't care about her or her baby.
P.S, Get a paternity test for sure!
2006-06-11 14:15:49 · answer #4 · answered by Starr 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not to sound harsh but did she break up with you because the baby might not be yours? I understand the whole hormonal issue but she sounds somewhat guilty.
I think before you try and be a family you might want to clear the air and get answers to any remaining questions. I know that I'd be curious if I was you.
2006-06-11 14:15:27 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she Needs help...taking her to the Doctor would even Be a good Idea Because Major mood swings are common for pregnacies. Most women arent at their normalty while pregnant.
Good Luck.
2006-06-11 14:14:53 · answer #6 · answered by Fallon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to be mean but maybe she cheated on you and she's not sure if the baby is yours. That was the first thing that came to mind sorry but i hope it's not true!
2006-06-11 19:48:09 · answer #7 · answered by milah82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hormones are a b,itch my friend. dont press the issue too much wait til the baby is born and she has settled down some then bring it up. good luck
2006-06-11 14:13:15 · answer #8 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not wasting your time. If you two are expecting a child together, you owe it to that child to give it as much effort as you can.
2006-06-11 14:12:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
my baby daddy is so sweet especailly since he found out i was preagnet and i act tha same way i get angry with him so ur not wasting ur time
2006-06-11 15:29:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋