Well i have a boyfriend and i truly love him. there is just somehting inside of me that has feelings for someone else. the thing is this other person is a girl. She is in my grade and she is so beautiful. I've kissed her nad everything before we had started dating and i told him about it and asked what he thought. But i didn't tell him i really had strong felings for her. what sould i do?
2006-06-11 13:33:48 · 14 answers · asked by T.White 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
GO WITH UR B/F!!
2006-06-11 13:36:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you truly love your man, you should tell him everything. Or say that you need some time apart. Take a getaway trip, spend some time in a monastery. Just find somewhere quiet even, to connect with the inner you. Buddha will guide you.
2006-06-11 14:22:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should dump your boyfriend. You're too young for a boyfriend. Have a good time with the girl you like, experiment, learn what you like and what you don't like, and be free. Don't hang on so tightly to people that you end up hurting them and they end up hurting you. Just be free and unattached, and then you can do what you like and grow the confidence to be happy with yourself. No matter what your preference, that confidence is the single most attractive thing you can have.
2006-06-11 13:37:13 · answer #3 · answered by jackmack65 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you should do is find out if this girl feels the same way about you.And if she does then you should follow your heart.If that means leaving your boyfriend then that is what you should do,because it will only hurt him more if you stay,but have feelings for another person.
2006-06-11 13:38:48 · answer #4 · answered by //Ash// 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you!! How old are you? That right there makes a difference. Who knows maybe you are bi? You know there are so many different levels of love and attraction. Whatever you do don't push your feelings away. You need to be yourself not what he wants you to be!
2006-06-11 13:43:25 · answer #5 · answered by jenny2tone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. I actually have the same thing going on. I am married and I am in love with my friend who is a girl...I just have never acted on it. It is just one of those things that tends to happen. if he's all for sharing..well then you lucked out...if not...then you have to choose and I can't help you there...good luck.
2006-06-12 04:13:21 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're probably bisexual...thers nothing wrong, but if you like the chick better than go out with her. u need to pick, so you dont make your boyfriend confused. and relationships are all about honesty, so if he truley cares for you, he should understand. good luck!
2006-06-11 13:37:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you kissed her nads..??
shes a guy.
or...whatever.
do what is best for you in your situation.
personally.. this has never occured to me.
but for some reason.. i attract homosexuals.
is it my fault i like to look good? nay.
i don't look gay...what the deal?
2006-06-11 13:36:14 · answer #8 · answered by lifedrain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People say everyone (even straight people) are gay for at least one person. This could be your person. Just wait and it'll pass.
2006-06-11 13:36:58 · answer #9 · answered by Rai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to check yourself.Stay with your boyfriend.You sound to young for all that mess baby.
2006-06-11 13:36:56 · answer #10 · answered by dccuttie75 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u could be inlove with both u just have to ask ur self which one u really want to be with.
2006-06-11 13:37:58 · answer #11 · answered by kala m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋