2006-06-11 13:05:04 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
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2006-06-11 13:08:03 · answer #1 · answered by ladysodivine 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I can;t imagine being so young and faced with this. Having one child is hard, but trust me once the second one comes a lot of things get soo much harder. Since you still have your 1 year old that shows you have at least took responisblity for your decisions. I don.;t knwo if you are with the father or whatever but you need to make sure hey help at least finacially. I don;t advise adoption, but it is a choice you have to make. Every and I MEAN everyone makes mistakes. some just make them younger or the mistakes are more alarming. what is done is done and there is no use fretting about it now. I would tell your parents and work this out together. I would also think about your future and what goals you want. you can have goals even if oyua re young with kids. DOn;t EVER give up or feel bad for your decsions know that they were what you felt was right. At sucha young age it will be hard to make any rational decisions, but as a mother follow your heart. I would also focus on school as much as possible. you will need that...good luck
2006-06-11 20:20:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love when people put you down like that. Ok Im 17 years old. My daughter will be one in 2 weeks. And yes im pregnant again. Im 10 weeks. I was even more terrified then last time. The babies both have the same father and he is living with me. I went through college. and I work as a nurse at a gynecologist's office. Im only a CN, and im going for my RN next year. We are still living with my mom only for the sole purpose of saving money for us to get a nice house. My fiance and I are getting married after the baby is born. AND yes people I have been engaged since before I got pregnant with this 2nd baby. If we were to divorce or break up before the baby is born I could support myself and raise 2 kids.
Now with my story told are you able to support 2 children by yourself in case something were to happen? I think you should definitely look at ALL options before continuing on. I personally think that if you cannot support this next baby then adoption should be the choice. It would be sooo unselfish. But if you think you can support and care for 2 children then by all means go ahead and do it!
If you need any kind of support you can join this group for pregnant and parenting teens. Its called Pregnant_teenz_n_parents
the link is http://groups.yahoo.com/group/pregnant_teenz_n_parents
Good Luck with your decision, I hope you make it!
2006-06-11 21:40:53 · answer #3 · answered by Preggo with # 2 YAY! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously think of doing something very unselfish and put it up for adoption. You're going to have 2 children under 2. and you are going to be so overwhelmed unless you have lots and lots of help. Is it possible to do it? Yes, but think how much work it is with one and then think about your son walking and being very active with a new baby to take care of. Being overwhelmed is why some children are abused. You don't want that to happen to either child. Also remember this.....sex is like candy, once you've tasted it you want more so don't kid yourself and say you won't have sex again. If you don't that's good for you but after you've dealt with this pregnancy use birth control each and every time, no exceptions. Babies are a very very big deal and you sweetheart are still a baby yourself.
2006-06-11 21:57:28 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to sound mean but....I vote no more babies. In the long run, us tax payers are gonna pay for this child. You really should weight out your options. Are you on a stable enviornment...financially/emotionally? Is the father okay with another baby so soon....? Can you handle buying TWO packs of pampers? If you can't not afford a safe place to live and money to support two kids then you should consider adoption and get birth control asap. It's easy to bring babies in to the world, but to provide for them ( 18 years) and yourself is a hard task. You are not even old enough to get a job......Honey, you dont need no two babies. I know for a fact having one is hard enough....
Hope I helped!
2006-06-11 22:00:45 · answer #5 · answered by Due Dec23rd...It's a GIRL! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By now you should recognize the behavior that is causing your problem. STOP DOING THAT!!!!
Are just insane??? You aren't old enough to take care of yourself and now you will have two children to care for. Stop living a trampy life and get an education. It is the only chance you have to make any sort of life for you or your children.
If you can't afford to keep the kid then start talking to adoption agencies. Some of them can get you help from the adoptive parents. Enough to cover your medical care, prenatal thru birth, and maybe enough to help you finish school.
Start living like you NEED to and stop living like you WANT to.
2006-06-11 20:23:11 · answer #6 · answered by bigrob 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that is really shocking to hear.. i mean really what can you do besides accept it. something you should really think about investing in after delivering your child is birth control or even condoms. it is really sad to hear of a baby having not one but 2 babies. i wish you well and I hope everything works out for you and I suppose this is a good lesson for why you shouldn't have sex until your able to bare the responsibilities that come with it. How do you manage, I would imagine you have a job and your in school and now you will have 2 children to fend for? hopefully you have you life straight for you and your children. good luck hun
2006-06-11 20:11:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What did you do the first time? You should tell an adult and get yourself to the doctor if you haven't already.
It is going to be your decision on what you do from there. I would definately say that no matter what happens, after this pregnancy you MUST go on BC! Whether it's the pill, shot or diaphram, your choice, but you have to go on something.
Good luck.
2006-06-11 20:19:23 · answer #8 · answered by barefeet561 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to keep your pants up and your legs crossed. Sorry, but I see a fifteen year old making one mistake, but two,that's hard to see. Good luck with the new baby though.
2006-06-17 01:17:19 · answer #9 · answered by yankeechik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to be rude. But quit having sex. You are to young to be doing this in the first place. I'm 31 and don't even have 2 children!
2006-06-11 20:47:20 · answer #10 · answered by nimchex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let someone adopt your child. You need to do the RIGHT thing for the baby. There are plenty of good families who want to love a child. Not that you will not love it but you are way to young for the responsibilities that go along with it. Do right by your child, please. Good Luck
2006-06-11 20:24:18 · answer #11 · answered by Robbin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋