When I was around 12 - 13 yrs old and my cousin was 9 or 10, he used to feel me up sometimes when we met at our grandma's as we used to share a bed. I would pretend to be asleep and though I felt a little guilty I would not stop him as I liked the feeling myself too. This happened a couple of times over a few years. As I got older it slowly stopped. Is what we did wrong? Should I let him do it again?
2006-06-11 12:59:11 · 13 answers · asked by genius 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I do feel horny sometimes when I'm with him and I know he does too. I don't have a bf. If I let him do it again, I know it can lead to sex and also it might spoil our relationship later on in life. I knw I shudn't do it but I want to. I'm confused.
2006-06-11 13:14:54 · update #1
There is nothing wrong with young kids engaging in some naughty
acts . it is quite healthy and natural. most young animals do it in
Nature. but as adults now you have to consider social costs and
consquences. if you are both keen about it. Just keep your secret
to yourselves and have fun. it is no body's business. enjoy it.
2006-06-11 13:12:15 · answer #1 · answered by love 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
He is ur cousin remember? He knew what he was doing but didnt know u knew.If u had yelled, he would have begged and may not share ur bed with u,and this might weaken ur family relationship with him, he may even lie on the floor,giving a silly excuse. What if u do it again, get really arouse by him, what will u do? U will end up begging him for sex.Get a boyfriend pls. If he tries it again,keep ur eyes closed and momour "NO". 2 or 3 times. Pretend to be a night mare. He may be puzzled if u were refering to him or ur dream. If he does it again to confirm if it was him, Momour again and he will never try it again. Be sensible, He is ur blood relation for christ sake!!!
2006-06-11 20:09:47 · answer #2 · answered by lovingarrows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its a little wrong becuase you two are cousins... but you were young so neither of you probably knew better.
I wouldn't do it again. Your older now, and he's your cousin...not only is that bad for your psychological health, but it could have a bad impact on your family and family members if you continued it.
2006-06-11 20:07:07 · answer #3 · answered by CSF 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the mature route: tell him you remember the situation and tell him how immature you both were and you're glad he's still your friend. Dont' worry so much about it all. Don't do it again. It's time to grow up, honey. Stop any intimate activity before it begins.
2006-06-11 20:12:35 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no! when i was 4 my cousin was spending the night. She inserted her fingers in me, and she rubbed both our private parts together. Now I'm not sure if i have a genital wart, or std or something, because this same cousin had ovary cancer, and she is only 19! So i would stop, because this cousin of yours could have a std,aids, or genital warts, and you could get a serious disease.
2006-06-11 20:10:35 · answer #5 · answered by wippedcreamy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel guilty, why would you let him do it again. If your old enough to have a boyfriend, get one who isn't related and so much younger than you, if you're still in your teens.
2006-06-11 20:10:13 · answer #6 · answered by i am a genius 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't do it now. No need to feel guilty about before, it's natural to be curious about that feeling when you're that young.
2006-06-12 21:48:53 · answer #7 · answered by daisy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it was childsplay and you felt allright with it, there is nothing wrong with what you did.
You only let him do it again if that is what you want! Don't do it if it doesn't feel good.
2006-06-11 20:06:14 · answer #8 · answered by Bloed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what state you live in.
2006-06-11 20:04:31 · answer #9 · answered by Kelly K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh...Hes your cousin. Need I say more?
2006-06-12 01:07:30 · answer #10 · answered by tyker2020 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋