alright my last period occured on April 24th, which means i am now just about two weeks late. I had sex without protection on May 15th. He did the infamous "pull-out" thing. He busted on my legs. And yes, i am aware of PRECUM. But the last time he ejaculated was two days before, and well of course he urinated in between. According to my YOURDAYS ovulation calender, i wasn't fertilized that day. So now i'm really worried on why my period hasn't arrived yet. I'm really paranoid about this. Everytime i come online, i do "research" about the early symptoms of pregnancy. So maybe, stress is the reason why my period hasn't came yet? This has happened to me once b4, same exact thing except for the fact that he had a condom on that time. I was still worried & concerned even b4 my period was due . And to top it off, lately, i've been having minor headaches, eating a lil too much& having lower back pains.
Well, i'm taking a HPT next weekend unless my period arrived by then.
PLEASEE HELP?
2006-06-11
12:49:12
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the 15th was 2 days after my fertilize days end. so even if sperm can live up to 36 hours. I still wouldn't be fertilized on those days. And the reason why im waiting til next weekend is because that's when my bf comes back. And i won't feel comftorable going with anyone else to get it. I'm 17, almost 18, but i have really strict Asian parents. And i'm going out of country for 3 wks next wk. IDK what to do if i really am pregnant =/
but thanks a lot for those who answered, i appreciated it =)
2006-06-11
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GO to your doctor and have a blood pregnancy test done then u will know for sure..those calanders don't work very well
2006-06-11 12:55:31
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answered by peacefreak2000 3
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There is no reason to wait to take the test. You can do it right away, you should get an accurate result as of the first day of your missed period and yours is late enough that you should get a really accurate result. Why put yourself through all the stress of waiting?
There is something very important to remember here.. not every woman ovulates at 14 days into her cycle. If you were ovulating later, there could have been an egg there.
Seriously, depending where you live, you can probably go out tonight and find a pharmacy open, why not just go get a test and take it, buy a two pack, if the first is negative, wait a couple of days and if your period doesn't come, test again.
Take care and good luck.
2006-06-11 13:16:35
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answered by barefeet561 5
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First, are you positive you ovulated before the 15th? i.e. have you been taking your temperature and noticed a thermal shift? If you don't know for sure you ovulated, it could be that you ovulated late this month, and are now pregnant. You should take an HPT to be sure. However, if you are positive that you ovulated before the 15th, then it is highly unlikely you are pregnant, and it could just be the stress that is causing your period to be late. It happens to lots of women. If you are trying to keep from getting pregnant, don't have unprotected sex, even if you AREN'T fertile, just so you don't stress out like this again. ;) Good luck!
2006-06-18 10:32:41
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answered by KansasSpice 4
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Why wait until next weekend to take a pregnancy test? Do you really want the extra week of worrying and 'what-if's? It amazes me when you are 'aware of precum', you still go ahead and have unprotected sex...that is naive at the best of times. If you don't want to get pregnant, use reliable contraception...the 5 minutes of pleasure is not worth the weeks of worries or possibly a ruined life for yourself and the little person who did not ask to be created by your irresponsible behavior.
2006-06-25 11:06:56
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answered by sexy_devil 4
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OK I had sex 2 days before I ovulated. My hubby went in me. I am now 20 weeks pregnant. Sperm can live in your body for up to 36 hours. Take a pregnancy test!!!!
2006-06-11 13:21:49
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answered by Maw730 3
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You're really stressed out about this i can tell. To calm yourself down get a pregnancy test to figure it out for sure, if you still are freaking out go to a walk-in clinic and get a check up and ask them to do a blood prenancy test. Your parents won't find out since the doctors can't tell them anything, everything is confidential. If you are then you have a major decision to make just please make sure you don't do anything you'll regret later. I wish you all the good luck in your situation.
2006-06-11 12:58:32
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answered by hearts99992000 5
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It sounds as if you could be pregnant, and the fact that you had unprotected sex and that you are having those symptoms, makes me believe it more. I wouldn't wait until next week to get the test, if possible, because you will worry yourself sick over it. Better to know now, rather than later. Good luck!!!!
2006-06-11 12:56:30
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answered by tamitones1978 3
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Stress or a lack of iron (totally unrelated, but I had the same scare and it turned out to be a combination of the two) can cause you period to be delayed or even stop.
2006-06-24 19:20:50
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answered by silvermoonstar3 4
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just to let you know sperm can live inside of a womens vagina for 5-7 days...alot longer then 36 hours...its possible you are pregnant...if you find out you arent...NEVER use the pull and pray method...go on birth control ...go to the doctors to find out for sure
2006-06-20 19:27:25
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answered by kimmie 2
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I would go ahead and take the home pregnancy test. Why wait?
Good luck!
2006-06-11 13:01:25
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answered by brains 4
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