what do you do when your having sex. what can i do to make it more pleaserable for me and him. (my first time). serious answers only please. details please...
2006-06-11 12:15:02 · 10 answers · asked by ashboo 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I would suggest using lube..and maybe you being on top so you can control how deep the penetration is...
You may bleed, but don't be scared..it is normal, but you might want to let him know that so it doesnt freak him out..but yeah I'd say use plenty of lube..and you on top for control..or him on top but let him know how far he can go..it might be a little painful the first few times...
But most of all...MAKE SURE YOU ARE READY!! make sure you are doing it because YOU want to do it and NOT becuase you are being pressured..
2006-06-11 12:20:17 · answer #1 · answered by Tamara J 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's very important that you trust him and love him. Tell him it's your first time and to be gentle and use lots of lubricant. Also, don't have great expectations about the first time. It will be a time of discovery. Try to relax your pelvic muscles too.
2006-06-11 12:22:06 · answer #2 · answered by Belindita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RELAX! Take your time, don't force the issue. Don't do anything you aren't comfortable with. Hopefully this is with someone you love and are in a committed relationship with. Do what feels good for both of you. Good luck.
2006-06-11 12:20:10 · answer #3 · answered by jimel71898 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what i do is certainly different than you the first timer!!
but i think if you just let yourself to be yourself, ( no acting or
pretending required) Chances are that your partner will naturally
engagage in a way that is most satisfying to him, and this will
hopefully excite and satisfy you the most.
enjoy yourself & let the lucky dude do it all .
, and tell us about your first experience if you wish. Good Luck.!
2006-06-11 12:27:53 · answer #4 · answered by love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i read all the answers you got, but not one of them advised you to make sure that it is protected sex.,it sounds like you are very young and so is he? i hope that he is the right guy, because you will never get it back.
2006-06-15 15:43:43 · answer #5 · answered by john h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow, let each other know what feels good and what doesn't. Use a water based lubricant such as KY Jelly.
2006-06-11 12:19:06 · answer #6 · answered by Almost MD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can buy a book which will tell you everythng if you are not too inhibited. It is titled, "Getting It On"
2006-06-11 12:19:17 · answer #7 · answered by syrious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to enjoy sex you must relax and start kissing your man and rub your hands over his body to get him turned on and he will slip his hands into your panties and pull down your panties and put his penis into your vagina and work up and down until he comes.
2006-06-11 12:22:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't hurry, hug and kiss alot, and lots of touching.
2006-06-11 12:20:16 · answer #9 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it slow then go and do experiments have fun
2006-06-11 12:20:52 · answer #10 · answered by el chingon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋