My wife and I have been separted for the past 2 months complex situation, but no infidelity on either side. Whenever I see her, she has her engagement ring on her left hand, but no wedding band. She knows that I want us to get back together again. When I asked her that I had noticed she wasn't wearing one of her wedding bands she replied but I have the engagement ring on my left hand. Today she had another band with the engagement ring on her left hand, but it wasn't a wedding band, and the ring that she had on, she usually wore on her right hand, family hierloom.
What if anything does this mean??
2006-06-11 12:04:59 · 14 answers · asked by John B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It means she's proving to the world that you are separated for right now, but she's not ready to give it up completely. Her engagement ring still tells people that she is off limits, but not completely off the market. The fact that she replaced the wedding ring with the heirloom is probably just for her benefit. No one else knows that its not her wedding right, but she knows. Its her little way of being separate from you. The good news is, that means shes still hanging on to you. Not, to say you will defiantly get back together, but if she wasn't seriously considering it, she wouldn't be wearing any of your diamonds. Best of Luck to you... give her some time, it may be all she needs to work it out.
2006-06-11 12:30:58 · answer #1 · answered by manderstwin1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your wife is still wearing the engagement ring because she wants other men to know that she is still taken and is not interested. She is considering a reconcilliation and by wearing another ring in place of her wedding band means that she is getting closer to making a decision and is considering putting her wedding ring back on.
2006-06-12 06:01:15 · answer #2 · answered by gailandnormhare 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It might mean that she isn't sure where her life is going. I don't think she is ready to call it quits with you and the marriage. She wears the engagement ring as a safety net. That way when she is approached and doesn't want to be, she can say she is spoken for.
2006-06-11 13:28:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means she likes the engagement ring and doesn't want to quit wearing it. no wedding ring means..she is free to fly away. at least that is what it would mean if i did it. why don't you ask HER for a specific answer. it doesn't sound like you want to be separated and that you are confused about all of this. sit her down and talk to her about where things are going.
2006-06-11 12:11:36 · answer #4 · answered by LongAgo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means she is thinking things out. If she takes off all the rings, worry. If the engagement ring stays it might mean she wants to start over. You cant "read" into these things if she isnt willing to share, leave it alone.
2006-06-11 12:09:36 · answer #5 · answered by lorihurley03 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means she is dating other men and wants them all to know that she's single now, and open to playing the field.
Don't give up, but don't be surprised when she tells you she has had a boyfriend/dates/sex
2006-06-11 12:31:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may very well mean that she is wanting out and to move on but then it may mean nothing at all. Talk to her and ask her and see what she has to say about it.
2006-06-11 14:48:08 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a woman wears her rings on the left hand, it means she's a widow
watch your back, dude
2006-06-11 12:09:40 · answer #8 · answered by rsuavez66 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She is either cheating on you or she is seriously thinking about it. Believe me I have been there already and have experienced the exact same scenario.
2006-06-11 12:10:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
this is her way of showing people that she is not really 'married' anymore, but still is not divorced.
2006-06-11 12:13:00 · answer #10 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋