i am only 12 years old and i have this 1 best friend. one day she was here at my house and asked me to get horney with her (i dunno how to spell it) I told her no and she still tried to convince me. she said she has done it with her other friend that is such a bad influence on her. she told me all they did was take off their tops and bras and made out. my friend then told me that she prayed to god before that and she said he told her it was ok, and its not. i told my mom, but it is still buggin me. should we still be friends?
2006-06-11 11:36:51 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i am not lesbian. my heart felt sick when she asked me. im sooo not lesbo or gay
2006-06-11 11:54:08 · update #1
i have tried to talk to her but i am too nervous.i have pray for her.
2006-06-11 11:55:59 · update #2
oh yeah, i forgot, i had invited her to a week long Christian summer camp in july and she is coming and is in the same cabin.
2006-06-11 12:01:24 · update #3
by the way, hollyman_iii, i am not and older pervert w/e u said! even though u said even if im not, it still hurt that u would suggest that
2006-06-11 12:04:47 · update #4
I am so sorry that some people are like that I have an 8 year old daughter and I can only hope she can have enough courage to tell me if one of her friends ever did that to her. You are a very smart and brave girl the next thing you need to tell your friend is that if you want to do these things you need to keep me out of it because I know that this is wrong and that God would not have told you that this was ok because it's not you make me feel uncomforable and I don't like it. So either please stop acting like this or you need to keep away from me.
2006-06-11 11:43:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
At your age, "experimenting" is a bad idea. It could lead you to doing things later on that you may come to regret. At this point in your life enjoy being young and don't worry about the grown up stuff. That time will come.
And God will not tell her such a thing. It was God telling you not to do it. Curiosity is a part of life, but so is good judgement. If you would like to be friends, that's fine, but remember, a good friend will not put you in an uncomfortable position. And if it continues maybe you want to consider how good of a friend is she.
2006-06-11 19:02:03 · answer #2 · answered by King H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that telling your mom is a good first step. Ask your mom what she thinks you should do. If you still have her over to your house, you could ask your mom to keep an eye out so that the girl will know that others are watching and she may think twice about asking you again. A lot of young girls are curious at this age and as long as you are ok with saying no to her then just be sure that you have an adult around at all times so that her behavior doesn't get out of control. Again, ask your mom for her input.
2006-06-11 18:46:16 · answer #3 · answered by godsgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so glad you told your mom. That is always the first thing you should do, and if you can't tell your parent then tell a school teacher, your preacher etc. God did not tell your friend that it is ok and I would tell my own daughter to not be friends. No true friend will force you to do something you don't want to do or lie to you to get you to do something you know is wrong. I know it is hard at 12, but she is not your friend. So my answer is NO, do not be friends with her. Always listen to your inner voice and always seek advice from an adult who has good sound moral values. You made the right choice.
2006-06-11 18:47:29 · answer #4 · answered by Maddog30 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all,let me say that,I believe that you are an older social pervert having some fun on the internet; but if not, then in the interest of allevating the confusion of of lowest class illiteracy...create a high level of aversion toward your young associate...cultivate this hostility,while guiding them beyond their desire for physical,personal pleasure;to spiritual pleasure.which is all around, if one only has the godly desire to seek awareness...
2006-06-11 19:00:25 · answer #5 · answered by hollyman_iii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend was definately 'peer-pressuring you' and what she did wasn't right. She put you in an uncomfortable situation and you should let her know that and she should apologize if you still feel 'awkard' around the friend take a break from her until you can truly feel alright again; it might be best to not be friends with her.
2006-06-11 18:41:18 · answer #6 · answered by Like a dream 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her your not interested in the touching stuff and if she wants to keep you as a friend find other things to talk about. Her playing around will only get her into things she has not business doing. It may be natural for preteens to explore their bodies but it is too early for sexual activities.
2006-06-11 18:42:52 · answer #7 · answered by mr conservative 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone who forces you to do something especially if u dont want to is not a real friend im 14yrs old if 1 of ma friends tried that they would have been out the door by you saying it wasnt right was enough for her but its that you trust your mom always have trust in her cuz at the end if the day she is your best friend
2006-06-11 18:51:49 · answer #8 · answered by smilez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never do anything that you know isn't right.At this age you probably feel as if you don't want to lose your friend.You seem as if you are a really cool person so you will have many more friends in life.Always hold on to your morals and what your parents teach you
2006-06-11 18:48:17 · answer #9 · answered by pretsherman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is making you feel uncomfortable than don't do it. Politely tell her no that is does not feel right. If she is truely your "friend" than she will stop bugging you about it. If it continues, then I would say something. Trust your gut, and dont put yourself in a situation where you are not comfortable. Good luck!
2006-06-11 18:42:06 · answer #10 · answered by Rylie's Momma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋