He has 3 girls already and this will be my first child. (His 4th) But he don't get to see his other kids. He is really happy that we are having a baby. I find out what i am having on Wed. He can't come with me to the hospital when i find out. I was thinking about waiting until Father's Day, but how could i tell him? I don't want to just say It's a Girl! or It's a Boy!..... I want to make it more special if it's a boy because that's what we are hoping for even though i would love to have a girl, it would be a new experience for him. (I'm 17 he is 25)
2006-06-11 11:36:46 · 15 answers · asked by Veronica 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
He hasn't been able to see his kids since him and the mother of his kids split up. She started to let him see them again until just recently when she found out i was pregnant. But every chance he gets he will see them... Age don't matter...and he can't come with me because he came with me already because they were supposed to tell me but ended up not and he can't miss work. He is the only one working and he has to support us... I am trying to change the date to when he doesnt have to work but if it cant be done before father's day im gonna go alone.
2006-06-11 11:55:03 · update #1
i would get a blue outfit if its a boy and a pink one if its a girl, put it in a bad and tell him to see what u got when u went shopping, lol...be like "i think its too small for me tho." that how i know i'm prolly going to do it when my time comes, lol.
2006-06-11 11:45:35 · answer #1 · answered by . 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Okay, I would tell him on Father's Day with either a pink or blue outfit to bring the baby home in when it gets here.
Good Luck and you might want to know why from the prior mother(s) of his children why he can't see them?? Not his version but theirs. Something is strange when a male of 25 yrs. has 3 children already and can't see them.
2006-06-11 18:41:05 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Texas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad you are both excited and I'm really glad to hear he is working to support you. But I'm really concerned about his age and the three children he already has. Is he paying support for them? You should probably talk to their mother and see what he is really about. You should also figure out how you would support them if he left. Always consider that possibility. Also you might want to consider marriage?
PS: If i see the term "baby daddy" one more time on here today I'm going to scream.
2006-06-11 19:43:14 · answer #3 · answered by prettyinpunkk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um....isn't that illegal in some states?
If he is 25 and has 3 children that he doesn't see already, why on earth are you giving him the opportunity to have yet ANOTHER child he won't take care of or love? Just because your his baby's mama doesn't mean he is going to stick around. For yours and your baby's sake, I hope he does.
2006-06-11 18:39:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having a girl u should really suprise him. With little hint showin him that its gonna be a girl. Since he dont never get to see his other girls. I think he would be so happy. and if u are havin a boi all u gotta say is that im havin a lil you baby. LOL
2006-06-11 19:09:07 · answer #5 · answered by thugmisses8246 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are infant shirts that say things like "Daddy's Girl" or "Daddy's Big Boy". Find something like that to give him on father's Day.
2006-06-11 20:17:00 · answer #6 · answered by PLDFK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Child you are to YOUNG for him. He is 7 years older then him. Just tell him say honey It is a boy or a girl.bThere is something wrong with him BIG time.
2006-06-11 18:43:32 · answer #7 · answered by Faithhhh,[♥] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you find out what it is go buy a onesie that says daddy's little princess or daddy's little helper or something like that what ever the case may be wrap it up in a box & give it to him for father's day
2006-06-11 18:45:04 · answer #8 · answered by smadair2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants a boy then say something like you and the baby will have a good time hunting and fishing together because its a boy!!! or you and the baby are going to have so much fun together..........doing whatever! : )
2006-06-11 18:39:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy him a balloon. a pink for girl or blue for boy. i was gonna say it's a girl oy boy cigar, but u have to be 18 to buy them!
2006-06-11 18:46:06 · answer #10 · answered by kim 777l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋