2006-06-11 11:28:22 · 15 answers · asked by ROLLIE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
oral sex...b..l..o..w...j..o..b?
2006-06-11 11:28:40 · update #1
I HATE giving them with a passion, but feel like I have to. I hate myself when I do do it. I feel gross and like a whore.
2006-06-11 11:35:56 · update #2
yes, but only one guy...
...Ken Kennedy...
...Kennedy
2006-06-11 11:36:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am over 30 and I actually do not think that oral sex is an automatic precursor to sex. I actually have other ways my girl and I stimulate each other. Oral sex was something we both discussed and decided to eliminated it from our special intimate time long ago. You need to discuss this with your partner and find something else that the both of you could do to replace it if it makes you feel that uncomfortable.
2006-06-11 12:02:23 · answer #2 · answered by azguitar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am 48 years old and I have never enjoyed receiving oral sex!
I am a very visual person and having my wife in that position just isn't a turn on to me. I love giving her oral sex and she enjoys receiving it but for me it's doggie style. Not every man enjoys oral sex but most of them do. As long as your man is satisfying you sexually, you can try to relax and learn to enjoy giving it but it would also help you to talk to him about it! Maybe this would help.
Good luck
2006-06-12 07:02:51 · answer #3 · answered by Ekimo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i doubt that a man 80 yrs old wouldnt like to have one, but thats not the point, you should not feel like you have to give one, if thats someyhing u dont like doing then thats fine, ur husband or bf should understand, and thats why i always say find out as much about the person ur with before u marry them
2006-06-11 12:16:55 · answer #4 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love to receive a good one but hate receiving a bad one. If you don't enjoy it then don't do it. Sex is supposed to be mutually pleasurable and anything that causes discomfort needs to be avoided.
2006-06-11 12:01:13 · answer #5 · answered by Aurora Lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont like it and it makes you feel this way then dont do it! If you are married your husband should love and respect you for this and not force or pressure you to do so!
2006-06-11 14:46:01 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats age got to do with it....if you dont you dont ---maybey you have an ingram------maybey an emotoinal block or not getting the right one from the right person at the right time. Who cares?
2006-06-11 11:32:37 · answer #7 · answered by soulsearcher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont enjoy doing it then DONT! If you want to try to please him in other ways you can buy massage oils and masterbate him so it kinda feels like a bj. The touching alone will turn him on.
2006-06-11 13:01:06 · answer #8 · answered by KAWAGIRL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love it. I'm sorry it makes you feel dirty. It shouldn't. It's perfectly natural. It should also be perfectly natural for your man to reciprocate. I can tell you it will definitely help you keep your man.
2006-06-11 14:28:51 · answer #9 · answered by wildstar_2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it doesn't matter whether they like it or not. If you don't want to do that then don't. Keep your standards. Don't bow down to the hype.
2006-06-11 11:33:37 · answer #10 · answered by amissybell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don`t know of noman that don`t like it.But it is up to you if you do it or not.Any man that care about you would understand!!!!!
2006-06-11 11:56:32 · answer #11 · answered by lazyman614 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋