When you are in public and people are whispering and laughing and seemingly looking or pointing in your direction what should you do. I feel like going over and bluntly asking if they are talking about me, but if they are not, they may think I am a little paranoid (which I totally am)
2006-06-11 11:25:30 · 16 answers · asked by lalala 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Well lenny, good question. I am very ashamed of being paranoid, thus I don't want anyone to know.
2006-06-11 11:30:21 · update #1
I'd say, dont worry about it! Let people talk. If theyre talking about you it could be good things as well. Be laid back about it, and think to yourself, "Ya, I'm fabulous, they have every reason to talk." : D Enjoy life!!!
2006-06-11 11:28:45 · answer #1 · answered by Krissy-Girl : ) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely understand what you are saying, and for the sake of not acting like a complete lunatic i just move from where i am so that i don't feel like anyone is speaking about me or watching me. But my paranoia derived from being betrayed by a friend, who constantly spoke about me behind my back ( and god alone knows who and what she said). So why don't you think about the root of the problem and try and resolve that, see why you are so paranoid? Maybe some insecurity you may have hidden inside of you?
The way I overcame it (or should I say I am in the process of overcoming it) is thinking to myself, well you know what, if they are by chance speaking about me...they seriously have nothing better to do....and that is the truth, people get jealous when they see things they can't have...or see people they wanna be like...just a thought, but it's a step in helping you overcome this paranoia
Good Luck!
2006-06-11 18:31:40 · answer #2 · answered by micheypoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
La La La..you must be one cute babe to catch everyone's eyes. Anyhow, don't let it bother you too much. I often feel that way but I just remind myself that maybe they are noticing my shoes, glittery glasses or something that they might like. Maybe, just maybe it's not you that they are glancing at, try looking behind you. I once thought people were talking about me until I turned around. Ha. I still laugh till this day. Don't stress over it.
2006-06-11 18:41:00 · answer #3 · answered by missdontgivafukusa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww im sry. thats not nice and ppl are jerks so heres what u need to do.
If you go up to them thats only gonna make them talk about u more (or start if they werent)
so u just gotta turn ur back on them, and walk away.
Even a little chilly look will get the message across.
oyah and u gotta stop worrying about that kinda thing, hun.have a little confidence, lift up your head, and be proud of yourself
2006-06-11 18:31:20 · answer #4 · answered by the ultimate lacrosse player 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore them ~ if you go up and confront them you could end up looking foolish and paranoid plus its there insecurity to find flaws in others so they dont feel so alone not you if you do confront them know your facts~ let dharma do the talking
2006-06-11 18:31:31 · answer #5 · answered by *~Butter Cup~*♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's called passive aggresive ... they want to have control over you ... knowing they can. move on and let it roll off your shoulders! Have a good time with nice people, not people that need to "get a life" .... have fun!!
2006-06-11 18:29:59 · answer #6 · answered by Rosster3 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask in a curious way
"hey im just curious..."
dont sound paranoid, though you said you are
2006-06-11 18:28:28 · answer #7 · answered by pacsky01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
these days... i just ignore it cus im used to it.... but i used to walk over and bluntly ask "what the **** mann???"
but anneyeeho0o... its best to ignore ignorant people...
2006-06-11 18:42:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have 2 choises (did i spell that right) you either ignore them or you go up to them. Pick one
2006-06-11 18:31:52 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm i would try to ignore it but try too look around to see if there is something to make someone do that
2006-06-11 18:29:29 · answer #10 · answered by Kristina S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋