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IM VERY DEPENDENT ON PEOPLE,I WANT TO PUT AN END OF, IT BUT I DONT KNOW HOW....

2006-06-11 11:13:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science Sociology

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You want your independence. Your are relying too much on at least one person. You think you need that person. You think you cannot leave that person. You want to leave that person, but you don't know why you are not leaving that person. You want to stop doing something that you are doing. You may be taking drugs, or prescription medicine, or smoking or drinking more than you would like to. You want to be a new person. You want a new life, a healthy life, a free life, a relaxing life, a fun life. You want the best in life. You don't feel good. You need love. You need to be in love. You need to know you're loved. You need to know that someone is in love with you. You need to know that you are one human being and that you are contained as one human body as one entirely special human being. You need to know that the human body matters because we are simply human bodies. Human beings are human bodies. That's just the way we're made. Our human bodies contain everything we are. We are not a division between spiritual and physical. We are just as solid as brick walls and just as alive as life itself. You are already independent because you are a human body. You already contain your own boundaries. You can do whatever you want. Experiment with life, not death. You're allowed to do that, and you're allowed to have fun while you live the good life. You can have your life and live it, too. Get naked and enjoy life.

2006-06-11 12:55:59 · answer #1 · answered by BrightGuy 1 · 0 1

Money, make a lot of money. Money equals independance and therefore freedom! This is the epitome of something that you have to "fake it, until you make it" Start with small bites...how are you depending on these people? Is it monetary? Love? You need to really be good with yourself, enjoy your own company, dothings FOR YOU... start with that, then go to the money, make lot's of money part:)

2006-06-11 18:20:56 · answer #2 · answered by Sidoney 5 · 0 0

It's called co-dependency, go to the library , check out all the books. read them .. live them

2006-06-12 12:04:45 · answer #3 · answered by earthling4luv 3 · 0 0

Get a job and a place to live on your own. Go to school if you can't get a job.

2006-06-11 18:19:49 · answer #4 · answered by Dennis Fargo 5 · 0 0

forget people and go in God's way

2006-06-12 04:33:10 · answer #5 · answered by Masoud p 1 · 0 0

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