change their views, she is the middle one.
2006-06-11 11:05:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Maybe she has a different sort of ambition to the other two. The middle child often feels somewhat lost in it all, but if she is happy and healthy and is growing up knowing what's right and wrong in society, then surely that's the main thing?
You don't say how old she is, but give her time and love and let her be her own person. Chances are she'll surprise everyone with what she achieves.
2006-06-11 11:54:30 · answer #1 · answered by justasiam29 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You prefer the two ambitious ones. Thats sad. Shame you can't appreciate her for her good qualities.
If you keep going on at her about how well the other two are doing you'll never change her mind. She's probably already tired of hearing it.
2006-06-11 11:11:28 · answer #2 · answered by sarah c 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not ambitious, that doesn't make me less of a person than my siblings. Some are ambitious some not. From experience she will probably have a happier (contented) life. Wish her well from me.
2006-06-12 01:51:36 · answer #3 · answered by intelligentbutdizzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe not, but we need to accept them as they are & motivate them in their own individual ways.
Check their self esteem. That middle one may just seem lost in the family for some reason? Does he/she know their place and like it? If not, help them to find it. Will save them a lot of emotional challanges in adulthood.
2006-06-11 11:11:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make sure you don't ask her why she can't be more like your other two. She'll end up feeling resentful and not try to be ambitious.
2006-06-11 11:09:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will watch them. of course she will desire it when she gets to the level of interest. What are you doing to help her get there?
2006-06-11 11:08:44 · answer #6 · answered by 10-da-roni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not. But you have to love them for who they are anyway.
2006-06-11 11:16:24 · answer #7 · answered by dorothy y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe not. just love them all anyway and try not to compare them.
2006-06-11 14:02:16 · answer #8 · answered by crophilia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep she will
2006-06-11 11:29:51 · answer #9 · answered by catherinemeganwhite 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋