my boyfriend wants me to have a three some with another woman, what should i do?

Answer 1

Really think this through. When you bring an outsider into your bedroom, no matter how he tells you it won't change anything between you two, it will. Weigh the pros and cons, and if you're truly not comfortable with it, then don't do it!!

Answer 2

Do you feel comfortable with that? Because I know if your not comfortable with it and you do it to make him happy, it will drive you crazy afterwards thinking about if it was good enough for him ,if he's going to leave you for her. all those thing can run through your mind and i'm sure even worse thoughts can happen. just make sure you want to do it before you do because after once he will want you to be with another. I know from my past. But If he really loves you and you tell him no then no will be good enough for him. Do what you want and what you feel comfortable with.

Answer 3

my husband wants the same thing but im not for that. If you want to go for it if not dont let him push you into something your not comfortable with. Could you sleep with a friend and face her the next day or sleep with some stranger and worry about stds.

Answer 4

that depends on alot of things.

1. are you alright being with another girl like that
2. are you alright with HIM being with another woman like that. i think i might be jealous that he would be more into her or something like that.
3. if you havent had sex with him, you should probably do it alone with him first... but if you already have ignore this statment.


if you've taken all of these things into consieration, then it seems fine.

Answer 5

If you are happy to do this then fantastic bring it on but choose the otherwoman wisely it is easy to feel regret/jealousy/bad after and dont want to loose good freinds.
ps i hope you dont feel bad and have a great time!

Answer 6

Well it depends on what you want to do....Would you want your man ****** another girl right in front of you or not???? I think not for me it is wrong and not right........Just tell him how you feel about it and if you want to do it find someone who dont have anything wrong with them and I suggest that you make him wear a condom because he could get her pregnant and not you and that would be horrible...........Good Luck..............

Answer 7

If you want to do it go right ahead i mean trying new things can be fun! But if you don't feel comfortable with doing it then you don't have to. Trust me if he really loves you then he would understand. Bye!

Answer 8

obviously if u had to ask this question then u r not comfortable with it if he is your man and he loves u he would not dare ask a question of this nature.....basically its way to cheat on u rite in front of your face.no matter wat he says to u honey dont do it if can stand your man havingsex with a anotha woman then thats your choice but im goin to tell u he absolutely have no respect for u.......lol ask him to let a anotha man join u 2 in the bed......sounds kinda freaky rite.......but u decide

Answer 9

ask yourself if you are willing to explore new areas in your relationship and new experience, it can be a one time thing or it can be something that both of you will enjoy and be comfortable with. ask yourself if it will bring new spark to both of you or will you only be doing it to make him happy even if deep inside you are not sure if you are willing to go to that extreme. whatever decision you make remember that its only one part of your relationship, there are other parts that are equally important.

Answer 10

I ONCE WORKED WITH A GUY WHO BEGGED HIS WIFE FOR 2 YEARS TO HAVE A THREESOME. SHE FINALLY AGREED AND THEY DID IT. HE TOLD US THAT AFTER A WHILE HE WOULD COME HOME AND THE OTHER WOMAN WOULD ALREADY BE THERE. NEEDLESS TO SAY THEY'RE NOW DIVORCED AND HIS KIDS HAVE 2 MOMMYS NOW!