Ok...ummmm i live in Michigan and I'm 14 years old. My bf wants to have sex soon. I kinda want to but im asian and small and think it will hurt to much.
wat should I do?
2006-06-11 09:40:24 · 9 answers · asked by Jae Hye S 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
As the mom of 4 daughters, I really think this is something you should discuss with your mom or an adult friend that can help you make the correct decisions. It does not seem to me that you are as interested in becoming active as your boyfriend. 14 is an awfully young age to start being sexually active, don't be in a big rush to take this step, your boyfriend will survive for several more years to give you the time to decide that you are ready. If you do not take the first suggestion-waiting for a few more years, at least go to the health clinic or planned parenthood in your area and have an exam and discuss birth control options. You are ultimately responsible for your future and that of any child the 2 of you may mistakenly make, please protect yourself and your boyfriend for that matter, by giving both of you the time and tools necessary to build a strong loving relationship-which in the end will last much longer than one built on the lusty urges of a teenage boy! Good luck, but please be safe in whatever you decide
2006-06-11 09:54:20 · answer #1 · answered by mom of 4 girls 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO
Don't even consider it. Not only are you too young to heve sex, you are too young to have a boyfriend.
There will come a day that you will regret it. This boy doesn't love you, he only wants to use you, and within a short time, he will dump you.
Save yourself for the man that you mary, and both of you will be more satisfied.
You are messing with something that you don't understand yet. Sex does not make you mature. It does not make you an adult, but it at this point in your life, it can make you emotionally unstable.
Each sexual partner will take a peice of your heart so that when you get married, you will not be able to love your husband with your whole heart because you will have given bits and peices of it away.
Just wait 10 years, and you and the man that you mary will be much happier.
2006-06-11 10:08:19 · answer #2 · answered by Marty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely your mind is already made up what your going to do, but hopefully if you have any wisdom at all, you'll listen to what people are writing because we've all been down the road your going down now, And we are all just trying to spare you the greif that we' had to go thru.
It's so not worth it. When you meet the man your gonna marry , Trust me, He's gonna want to be the one who takes your virginity away. And when you truly find the love of your life, the one you are going to marry. You will want him to be the one to take it..
2006-06-11 09:56:25 · answer #3 · answered by CarrieJean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you are at least 18. If your bf is pressuring you dump him. You don't need him.
2006-06-11 09:46:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you're even asking that question means that you're not ready.
2006-06-11 09:45:01 · answer #5 · answered by nikki puddin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AHHH! No no no no no no no! Don't do it! Please don't! You have your whole life ahead of you. Wait until you get married it will be worth it!
P.S- do you like msu or u of m? U of M ROCKS! my dad lives in MI.....
Jesus is my homie.
2006-06-11 09:44:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well tell him that you are not ready because you are too young anyway
2006-06-11 09:43:52 · answer #7 · answered by confused 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him dat you're not reday yet...if he a good boyfriend...he should b able to understand
2006-06-11 09:43:01 · answer #8 · answered by Nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him no, and save yourself.
2006-06-11 09:43:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋