If you saw that your kid (age about 11-17) was looking at porn what would you do?
2006-06-11 09:29:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Do what the mum did in 'Malcolm in the Middle': cut out your face from a photograph and paste it to the face on the centerfold. The only thing is, you may ruin his sex life for ever................
You can keep getting rid of the magazines but he will find advertisments for womens underwear in magazines etc. At that age, anything that looks female will do. Don't worry, it is all part of a boys hormonal imbalance, and a sign he is growing up......
2006-06-11 09:36:17 · answer #1 · answered by thomasrobinsonantonio 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If i caught my sons (right now ages 6 and 4) looking at porn at age 11 or so, I'd blame their father *smile* Who else will I blame? Cause *I* sure don't look at that stuff *smiles devilishly*
In all seriousness tho, I'd probably just take the porn away, lock them out of the computer, and let them know that if they want to look at that kind of stuff, then they'll have to wait til their legal age, or do it where I won't catch them *wink* (hey, how can I stop them if i can't see it?)
2006-06-11 16:55:21 · answer #2 · answered by silvlply_lvle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a thing my 12 year old son was caught watching porn on the internet and i just decided to let him be it was late he wasnt hurting or disturbing anyone so i just asked why do all guys like that stuff. i feel like it is normal for a young man to be curious about sex and the female body
2006-06-18 14:49:38 · answer #3 · answered by cinnamon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a natural curiosity in kids that age to wanna look at porn. I wouldn't make too much of a fuss about it.
2006-06-11 16:35:37 · answer #4 · answered by luv_bein_me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a 41 yr old Mother of a 9 yr old boy. If I catch him looking at it I will talk to him about it (with his father close by) and ask where he got it. I will tell him that I personally don't think its appropriate for a kid his age to be involved in that type of stuff. Oh, please God, don't let it happen any time soon.
2006-06-17 22:57:57 · answer #5 · answered by Zina V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and look with him or her, and make comments on the things he or she is seeing. Kids are curious, and since those pictures are out there, a kid needs to hear some adult judgment about the things they see. They WILL see them; no question. I'd say things like "They seem to be enjoying themselves," or "That looks painful, doesn't it?" or whatever is true and honest, including "That's disgusting!" if it's really extreme.
2006-06-11 16:37:00 · answer #6 · answered by auntb93again 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd find out where they got it and why they feel they need that smutty stuff. I would find out who, what where and when. Then I would either let them keep it or trash it, depending on the maturity of there answer.
2006-06-12 09:28:47 · answer #7 · answered by charleedude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's normal for kids their age. i would sit them down and talk to them about being responsible. urges or wanting to see pictures of naked women is part of growth.
2006-06-11 17:18:09 · answer #8 · answered by pUrpLe coW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take him to a shrink & get him in counseling/& on rx's quick! I am bipolar, my 28 yo kid IS bipolar, & if I had anymore, at the first sign, i would take them in.
2006-06-12 11:59:28 · answer #9 · answered by Kiss my Putt! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time for "the sex talk," just let them about sex and let them know that porns aren't really what sex is about, be honest, that sex is sometimes physical, but should be more about intimacy. Just my opinion.
2006-06-11 16:37:00 · answer #10 · answered by spoiled_21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋