How do u know when you ready to have sex with you're b/f?

Question

We want to but i dont know if i should give up my virginity yet. We both saved our "V-card" for each other!

and wut age is appropriate?

Answer 1

i guess it all depends on how comfortable you are with him.
really you just have to ask yourself a few simple questions.

1. are you comfortable enough with him to let him be with you like that?
2. are you doing it because its what he wants AND what you want?
3. do you love him enough for him to take your virginity?
4. do you feel that you are ready to take the responsibilities of having sex if something happens?

and thats pretty much it. if you answered yes to those, then i dont see any problem. its just a very personal choice for you to make.

if you decide to have sex with your boyfriend though, make sure that it is protected.

good luck making your choice!

Answer 2

Well, that's a tough question to answer because there is no rule book on things like that. I mean not a rule book that every one follows. It's different for every one. The time that every one chooses to have sex that is !
I think the most important thing you should try to understand is that having sex is more complicated than it really seems. The act itself is not but the things that come along with it are.
There is the emotional aspect of things and you probably won't believe me but the relationship changes once you have sex ! Sometimes for the better, sometimes. There is also the pregnancy issue, nothing is 100 % I mean in terms of contracpeptives, some even have really bad side affects, like gaining weight is one of them. If there are none that your considering then, do you realize that you could be making a baby. If you do use them then you should see a doctor, and or sex sometimes feels different with them. There is also things that get passed from one person to another, when having sex. because you will be engaged in kissing and petting, foreplay and actual sex, you will be sharing eachother's body fluid. Do you understand the risks of this ? If not you should take a few minutes to look into it.. There is the potential of spreading diseases............. WOW...... there is even more...!
Now I know you said that you were saving yourselves for eachother but are you sure ? well then I'll ask you this one other thing for future reference. Would you have sex with a room full of people ? Well that's what its really like sometimes when you have sex with one person.........! Does it still seem appealing ?

Answer 3

Having sex is a big thing. do u love him? does he love you? how old are you two? threes so muck to learn about having sex and if you feel uncomfortable about it you are not ready. there is so much more to a relationship than sex. enjoy each other in other ways you are both not ready

Answer 4

whenever u feel comfortable doing it. obviously, that s not rite now cos u r asking this wuestion. Just take it easy, u may do it someday, somewhere w/ out ever planning on it. Btw, ask urself if he s the right guy.

Answer 5

When you have no more doubts. Obviously you're not ready cause if you were, you wouldn't be a virgin anymore. Think with your head and when you're ready, make sure that you are protected and know that the decision you took is your responsibility. And please, please remember, protect yourself!

Answer 6

U will just be feeling it... it's a strong feeling, u will definitely notice it!
Best wishes

Answer 7

just wait for the right time.don't move too fast otherwise you might end up pregnant.but r u scared?

holla

Answer 8

thats awesome!! me and my first were both virgins too( 14 and 15) ....... if you love eatchother then its right! im 33 now and i dont regret my first time.. it was right!

Answer 9

when u know that this is the right guy

Answer 10

when u feel like it