my bf told me someting about 3 months ago and i found out just friday that i was a lie. wat do i do. we're promised so i don't know if we should break up or not.
2006-06-11 09:17:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if he lies to you about everything, it s obviously no trust there. I know it s cut and dry to say this but if there s no trust, the relationship wont work anyway. It s up to you to give him another chance or not. I think you should talk to him straight forward. If you want to give him a chance, go ahead. After all that, if he s still a liar, break up w/ him. Keep in mind, at least you tried your best, if it didnt work out, too bad, you move on.
2006-06-11 09:24:10 · answer #1 · answered by viola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now take my Advice I have been in this same situation 2 weeks ago. Confront him that you know hes liing tell him I'm better than to have a lying bf I'm way better than that unless you can give me a sensible excuse for every lie we are NO MORE!
2006-06-11 09:44:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well it all depend on the magnitude on the lie and y he told it i mean if it was a little white lie that didnt really hurt you well everybody does it but if it was something huge well u have to stop and think wat it would it be like to live with somebody that could lie in that magnitude and if he does it often
2006-06-11 09:48:12 · answer #3 · answered by blaxican56 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If TRUST is part of the true love equation (and it is) then you know you can never trust a liar, so you can never have true love with a liar.
Do you want true love? It's your decision, but you'll never have it with this guy.
stw
2006-06-11 09:25:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him and talk to him honestly. You can then decide whether or not to dump him based on his reactions, his reasons and how apologetic he is.
I hope this helps. =)
2006-06-11 09:26:45 · answer #5 · answered by Aimers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him tell him u know he lied to u take it from there just listen to your heart
2006-06-13 11:53:55 · answer #6 · answered by amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
set him straight and if you dont like what you hear leave him if there is nothing in the relationship to hold on to....
2006-06-11 09:20:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new boy friend.
2006-06-11 09:31:53 · answer #8 · answered by tooyoung2bagrannybabe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lie bak to him!
2006-06-11 09:34:31 · answer #9 · answered by joker l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋