my son is 20. I see gay pornos in my son's computer files. he almost fought with his classmates in the university because they told him he's gay. people who see him talk and act identify him as gay. he insists he is not. then why gay porno? his father has been out of the country for 21/2 years now. is there a way he will be a straight guy? am confuse.
2006-06-11 08:49:03 · 2 answers · asked by beh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well if he knows he;s a boy then he's not confused about his gender. As for his sexual orientation, you should probably let him find that out for himself. As long as he is confused or unhappy about it himself he will probably not be able to talk to you about it. I would let him know though, subtly as least, that you love him no matter what and that he has to be and do what makes him happy. Other people's opinions should not matter.
2006-06-11 08:59:10 · answer #1 · answered by amandla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if he is gay, he's your son and you will continue to love him. I would explain that to him and ask him. It would probably be a relief for him to be able to "come out" without being judged by you or your husband. Make yourself very approachable and earn his trust. He will not have any trouble talking to you if you are open and honest with him. If he tells you he is NOT gay, than by all means, drop the subject and help him when others hurt his feelings.
Good luck!
2006-06-11 16:11:49 · answer #2 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋