we loved each other a lot.we had an relationship for long 11 yrs.& we were married for 5 yrs.but he left me alone.i m now all alone.& now it is not possible for us to get together again.he doesn't love me anymore.but I still I can't forget him though he behaved very bad with me.i want to forget him completely.
2006-06-11 08:21:34 · 10 answers · asked by Lilian 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You do not love him ,it is that you cannot get over your feelings of his rejection. Once you realize this and focus your attentions on something or one else he will fade away. Also you being alone makes you feel that his actions were justified or legit that is not necessarily true. I do not know your full relationship with him so can't say, I am sure you have a lot of positives , work on them don't dwell on the negativity.[ I know easier said than done.]
2006-06-11 08:33:10 · answer #1 · answered by RF Ace Face 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know if it will ever be possible to completely forget him but you can heal and move past it and learn to forgive over time. Why is it not possible for you to get back together and why does he not love you anymore if i may ask? I feel like you still love him.
2006-06-11 13:43:42 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never be able to forget him but it will get easier, It took some time to be together right? so its gonna take some time to be apart, Love is so very painfull and some people have issues when it comes to love but you shouldnt degrade yourself cause he has issues with love because he's the one whos gonna miss out on all the love you could have given him and in time he will realize what he missed out on and honey then you can laugh in his face......Good luck to you.
2006-06-11 08:49:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you find another guy, you will be happier & not think of him so much. You should try going on dates & getting 2 know some new people. Also, find LOTS of hobbies & try 2 distract yourself from thinking about him.
Good Luck & have a good day! :-)
2006-06-11 09:54:45 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Weasel♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it its not going to happen love is here to stay now you can transferee that love to another individual and in time it will you will be able cope with it better. But as far as controlling love it can't be done.
2006-06-11 08:32:07 · answer #5 · answered by kilroymaster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my wife left 2 months ago because she said shes not in love with me anymore but still loves and cares for me. I want to move on in a way but still want us to be together again. I recently started praying that god would take over and help me find the answers.it really helps me alot.try it.
2006-06-11 12:13:48 · answer #6 · answered by crussell33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best remedy is finding someone else, there are so many fish in the sea, when u find someoen else u will totally move on mentally! good luck!
ps: u wont forget them, but u can move on!
2006-06-11 08:24:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. time will heal all wounds. Go out and have fun doing the things you like to do.
2006-06-11 09:10:24 · answer #8 · answered by sweetie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do another things that you like it too, it just time then you will forget
2006-06-11 08:28:02 · answer #9 · answered by red flower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SORRY TO SAY BUT U CANT MAKE SOMEONE LOVE U...IF HE LOVES U THEN HE WILL BE BACK
2006-06-11 08:24:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋