Ok. Well I am a bisexual girl, going out with my friend. We haven't been going out long, but have liked eachother, and like flirted, etc. And we both knew we liked eachother. Finally she asked me out. We put our arms around eachother, says romantic things to eachohter, flirt, hold hands etc. etc. But one thing we are waiting for is a kiss, and I really want to rub her leg and stuff. But I just can't seem to bring myself to make the first move and I get so many chances to....:/. Can somebody please help me. Oh yeah (p.s.I'm 14)
2006-06-11 08:18:02 · 12 answers · asked by Suzie 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
well if you are bisexual there should not be a problem with touching each other.test the waters and find out what she likes.go for the kiss and rub
2006-06-11 08:25:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to grow more before you make those moves. Liking and flirting is fine, but once you start more intimate things, your feelings are going to go up and down and keep you unstable with school and family and her. Your best bet is to remain friends and work with each other to get through school first. If she is still there then, more power to it. You don't won' t get in deep and can't get out or become so needed that she starts to reject you for someone else. I don't think you are as ready as you think, but just curious and that kills the CAT! Graduate and make money first, then find the right man or woman. You deserve better than being hurt down the road or tomorrow! Friendship can last forever, but lovers end right after the intimate moment is revealed.
2006-06-11 16:09:19 · answer #2 · answered by dollarbill2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you both feel the same way. It is scary making the first move. When you are together try getting close to her and maby do a little more flurting. Try rubbing her arm or playing with her hair. She should respond to that. It helps set the mood and also lets her know your introsted in trying something. Take things slow and you both should be fine. I hope this helps.
2006-06-11 21:22:36 · answer #3 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go in for the kiss. if you want to make it special, do it at a more romantic time. like after a great dance or a great date or something. either way, just go for it. if she has a problem with kissing, then i could understand your hesitation, but ducky, she seems like she's all out. you like her, she likes you. just wait for the right moment, and do it and hope that nothing goes wrong. i can't think of what could go wrong, so that could be a good sign in itself. (I'm a bit of a pessimist)
2006-06-11 17:49:47 · answer #4 · answered by gaygoddevil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to jump... you know, when you are scared of the water being cold in the swimming pool, but it's so hot outside and you like to swim once that first shock is out of the way, so just jump. Kiss her.
2006-06-11 16:31:03 · answer #5 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the time is right, go for it... the reason why it hasn't happened because she feels the same way you do... so just go for it...
2006-06-11 16:44:54 · answer #6 · answered by Chef Shortie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it, but wait until the time is right.
2006-06-11 15:37:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh bless you
young love is so sweet. stop panicking about it it will all come naturally when the time is right
2006-06-11 15:22:37 · answer #8 · answered by everybody loves chris! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it.give love a chance !
2006-06-12 00:42:12 · answer #9 · answered by bruceallmighty20030000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to young to know what u want.. think twice before you act..
2006-06-11 16:30:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋