If u was with your friends and yall was party and haveing a good time... and then you wanted to go home and then .......u was started to walk home u didnt have a ride there or anything and ... all your family was gone out of town and u had a key .,...so then u walked home and it was a man followin u and he jumped out and grab you and he rape you and u really dnt want to tell your mother and aunts or nobody ...and the only preson u told was you best friend and now tell me what i should and .... sorry if i got this mix up but now... in the place im the friend ........ help ,,,,
2006-06-11 08:10:32 · 28 answers · asked by babigirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
But plz realize this my best friend and she dnt want nobody to no and we ben together since we was bout 2 years old and she my heart and she ben there for me and i ben there for her and she ben there for me plz tell me what should i do ... i want to tell my mother but my heart dnt want me to /....so what should i do tell me thank you ....
2006-06-11 08:31:08 · update #1
In that case, i would go and tell the police first and describe him. Then I go tell my mom and my mom would bring me to the doctor to see if I'm pregnant. If I don't tell her until my belly got big and the baby is rady to come out, and then that time I tell she would think that I made up the whole story. I would have get rid of my baby.
2006-06-25 06:33:09 · answer #1 · answered by DBSK LOVER! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't take a bath after ur being rape, don't change ur cloth and wrap ur body with other cloth and go to the police station make a report and go to hospital know anything that can help u find some evidence and other things...this is the most important!!!
plz tell ur mom about wht happened. only parent's know the best for their daughter. if u still feel afraid ask ur friend to stay by ur side while u tell ur parents. maybe this will help u...and sorry to hear that.
2006-06-11 08:25:44 · answer #2 · answered by sweet_Devil's 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay, our friend should tell her parents and the police. The man is probably still running around. Her parents also must know. This is very serious, she should not keep this to herself.
It will be emotionally diffucult for her when she gets older, because she "held it in" so long, without a way to release the emotions, except to you.
You have to be her rock, she needs your love and support.
Tell her that you will always be there for her, but, she has to tell the authories and her parents.
Also, tell her she should go to a doctor for an exam.
2006-06-23 18:01:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gotta tell someone otherwise the next person this guy rapes could be you. The cops should have been told that night. You will not lose your friend if you tell. They may be mad at first but they will thank you for it later. I know I am not a lady but I have friends who had the same problem and I told and they are greatful to me now that I did.
2006-06-23 09:00:48 · answer #4 · answered by j_gordon24_2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you told the authorities not only so this maniac could be caught but also for your own health, there are countless diseases out there! You need to sit down and talk with your family and then seek professional assistance from a trained advisor so you can begin your healing process.
)o( Goddess Bless )o(
2006-06-24 21:31:20 · answer #5 · answered by alone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be true to your friend! Last thing she needs now is to feel betrayed by you. Make her do something about it and if she wont then tell her that you are, don't do it behind her back! Tell her you love and care so much for her that you know that this is the right thing to do, so not to happen again or to someone else.
2006-06-23 16:29:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you crazy? Why are you afraid? Tell your MOM, Tell the POLICE. Scream it from the highest voice you can.
This predator will RAPE again!!!! If you know the rapist report him and put him behind bars.
Don't be ashamed...the person that did this to you made you the victim.
Rape is just that....it's not done out of passion, it's done out of control. Stop this rapist in he cowardly tracks and have him prosecuted!
2006-06-23 00:00:48 · answer #7 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend about making a report fast!!! Let her know there is nothing to be ashamed about. Let her know she would be saving other's from being raped. She needs to come forth with letting the law know! Also tell her family and before you do let her know that you are going to no matter if she like it or not because you CARE about her!
2006-06-11 08:15:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to her and tell her that she needs to tell her mom and that she should report it to the police. She'll feel miserable for the rest of her life if she doen't. Tell her you'll always be there for her and remind her that he could do it someone else. She is the key to getting this guy behind bars.
2006-06-24 14:56:44 · answer #9 · answered by Godisaboveall2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend needs professional help and fast.
This is not a scraped knee at the playground.
And this is a lesson that unfortunately, this is a dangerous world we live in and women in this day and age cannot walk home alone. Safety in numbers.
2006-06-22 18:19:43 · answer #10 · answered by scarlettboca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋