I've known this girl since I was around 4 years old. I started having feelings for her about three years ago, but we are very close friends. She started saying Hi to me in the halls and I would say Hi back. She would sit next to me whenever she got the chance. But recently she stopped saying Hi and started to distance herself more, we used to talk alot, but now she just sortof tries to ignore me whenever possible.
2006-06-11 07:47:58 · 12 answers · asked by KarateKIDFunnyBoy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, you story is still vague but I think she grew up and found her own set of friends and now is trying to distant herself from the old....I would talk to her and find out what is going on.......Communication is the best way of life.......Good Luck!!!!!!
2006-06-11 08:04:21 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As per the description you gave it looks like that gal is your childhood friend. So I think you both would have grown up together and know each other well.
She may be trying to keep away from you may be because somehow she is getting unconfortable.May be she is thinking that you both are no longer kids.May be she is confused about what to name the relationship.It is quite possible that her friends would be taunting her beign with you.
Just talk to her, as of now assure her that you still are her good friend.Make her feel comfortable as before.Dont try anything outrageous.
All the best!
2006-06-11 21:32:12 · answer #2 · answered by Hope 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her I think you should approach her and just talk. I wouldn't tell her right away that I like her because if she doesn't like you as more than a friend then you have put yourself out there and she doesn't feel the same way.Seriously I think she likes you but since you're a guy she's waiting for you to make the first move.
2006-06-11 15:03:16 · answer #3 · answered by KAI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she could be scared... or just another heartles *****... They say the best relationships come out years of being friends... BUt with my close guy friends i feel like were to good of friends to date and have it feel right
2006-06-11 14:52:20 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably just messing with your brain or she might be trying to play hard to get. She could however, have cottoned on that you like her and been annoyed that you wanted to be more than friends
2006-06-11 15:01:05 · answer #5 · answered by dean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to do just one thing my friend
TALK to HER !
that's the only way and really the best way of figuring out what u mean to her . if you'r just gonna speculate on what she thinks or feels , that's not being fair to either her or yourself . if you really need to know, ASK her . GOOD LUCK
cheers :-)
2006-06-11 16:30:21 · answer #6 · answered by dxb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know if i could see this as posible lovers-- perhaps you have feelings for her but she doesn't know or is not interested-- even as far as has her own b/f.
i dont know maybe you should gently approach her to see what she says
2006-06-11 15:05:27 · answer #7 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would approach her and ask her why she has become distant
At the very least, this will give you closure......
2006-06-11 14:50:25 · answer #8 · answered by statenislanddreamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until you put your **** in her, you mean NOTHING to her.
Don't kid yourself about this.
2006-06-11 14:52:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
approach her and ask her why she's avoiding u.
2006-06-13 08:19:49 · answer #10 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋