I just had a baby and I had sex before the 6 weeks was up, and I think i'm pregnant. My boyfriend dont know about it should I tell him?
2006-06-11 07:41:20 · 11 answers · asked by Nayyah 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
hi boo-boo! first, let me congratulate you for ur baby. now, as for the problem, you should nod panic. you are not the only one responsible for you getting pregnant! and if you are asking us, whether you should tell this to your boy friend or not, that means he is the one responsible too! all you need to do is to keep your self cool. do not panic. you have two choices --
1) first get yourself confirmed that you are preggy and then tell this to your buddy!
2) tell this to your buddy that you doubt that you are expecting again. then you two need to work on this. sit together, decide what to do next (to go to a doctor for test OR to wait till the time your next period is to come). there are ways to tell this to him. start by saying--- "what if you get preggy again" OR "do you remember you did not use condom that night?" you know him better than any one of us. so, you be the better judge to choose the method to tell this to him. also, take a note of his mood before telling this to him. do not tell him when he is either verry happy or a upset. both are dangerous. believe me! i can tell this as i am a boy!
try these things. any one of the wo will surely work out! believe me!
rest depends on luck and leave on the hands of god!
all the best!
2006-06-11 08:01:03 · answer #1 · answered by bastiboy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Find out for sure before you tell him. When you go in for your 6 weeks checkup, if you havent already, ask the doctor for a pregnancy test. Be completely honest with the doctor about what you have done. You could have an infection, not be pregnant. This is serious, if it is an infection, and you need to get it checked out asap. Good Luck!!
2006-06-11 07:54:01 · answer #2 · answered by HCW 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If you don't tell him and you are pregnant then you run the risk of having a lot of problems in your relatinship. Two, telling him will probably help ease your mind. But first you need to go get a test before you open say anything, just in case you don't have to open that can of worms.
2006-06-11 08:34:40 · answer #3 · answered by duncanchild7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never tell the guy until you get a pregnancy test done at your OB. That way there are no mixed emotions or false hope or heaven forbid anger. For your sake I hope you arent. Two babies back to back like that is tough.
2006-06-11 07:55:05 · answer #4 · answered by southrntrnzplnt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK the first question is the guy you had sex with your boyfriend because you said "I had sex" not "we had sex". Either way you'll find out for sure soon enough. Talk to your boyfriend cause if you are prego he's gonna realize it.
2006-06-11 07:49:15 · answer #5 · answered by Maw730 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol there is a reason they stress in the hospital not to have sex untill after your 6 weeks.
2006-06-11 07:48:26 · answer #6 · answered by s.dennison123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait and go to the doctor to find out first...dont want to worry him just yet.
2006-06-11 07:44:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's going to find out in som way, shape or form.
Or is he not the father?
2006-06-11 07:45:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
was the sex with him or another guy ...... if with him tell him , if not get blood test to be sure
2006-06-11 07:45:01 · answer #9 · answered by sbcin1966newport 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should tell him, he shouldn't get mad cuz it takes two to make one!
2006-06-11 07:44:51 · answer #10 · answered by prettypixie1997 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋