2006-06-11 07:13:49 · 19 answers · asked by Hillbillies are... 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No, equal partnership is more my style.
2006-06-11 07:15:54 · answer #1 · answered by alter_tygo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually it depends on the situation in my case... sometimes I want him to be in control and other times I wanna be in control, and my husband and I share the balance... Sometimes he can better handle stressful situations then me so I step down and let him take charge because he is better under stress and can make clearer and more positive decisions in our life... When it comes to our kids we are both in charge... Either way we share our responsibilities... sometimes I take charge and sometimes he takes charge or we both discuss the best possible solution. He gives me my space and doesnt try to control everything I do and he gets more respect. I dont respect a man who wants to take charge of everything... every man needs a woman to let him know when he is being unreasonable and not making the right decisions and every woman needs a man who is man enough to allow them to take charge occasionally is for that matter a better man, but hey thats just me everyones opinion differs...
2006-06-11 14:19:43 · answer #2 · answered by hearts_bleed_dark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish! It's called"having your Ducks in a row". I Love a man that can take charge! It's,truly,my dream. But it is very hard to find,now day's! It let's a woman relax and concentrate on being a woman. So I guess it falls under,total trust. Not total dominance! Anyway, that's how I see it.
2006-06-11 14:25:11 · answer #3 · answered by Wishee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, when a man tries to be in charge, which is always, always wrong, I stop hanging with him. Men are made to be subservient, to give good oral, and to shut up and cook. Nothing else as far as I'm concerned. So, on your knees, worm. Your only happiness is to serve women.
2006-06-11 14:21:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes. I'm the dominate one in my marriage. I'm a first born and like to express my opinion. He's a youngest child and is very laid back. Usually I do whatever and we go with it. He knows I'd never hurt him on purpose or bankrupt us, so he's cool with it. I also buy the groceries, pay the bills, and keep the checkbook balanced. If he has something to say, he tells me. But usually he's pretty mellow. I'd love him to be in charge IN THEORY. But when he gets an idea in his head and refuses to budge, it makes me crazy. So nice in thought, sometimes annoying in reality!
2006-06-11 14:25:27 · answer #5 · answered by Velken 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In some instances, but some women like to take the lead too. It all depends on how independent she is. If she tells you to hang back, just do it and support her silently. If she needs you, you will be right there and she can tag you in when she cant take any more.
2006-06-11 14:19:11 · answer #6 · answered by Luvnu_always baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Outside, I don't mind too much when he takes the lead.
In bed, I like to control things at times, and the rest of the time, I guess it just depends.
2006-06-11 14:17:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what your talking about...in bed having sex, yes...i like the man in charge! but when it comes to making decisions about MY life, no...that's for me to do. anyway, a relationship should be 50-50!
2006-06-11 14:16:36 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love it in a sense that it shows that he has confidence and you feel safe and secure when he's like that.
But once in a while, we like to be in charge.. just so we can have that taste of power.
2006-06-11 14:16:31 · answer #9 · answered by cupnoodle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah but not too in charge.
2006-06-11 14:16:24 · answer #10 · answered by Yo gurl Jazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends, in charge of what?
2006-06-11 14:16:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋