I want to please my b/f an i know that he likes bondage but what is it??????
2006-06-11 06:48:33 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2006-06-11 06:50:49 · answer #1 · answered by fun_guy_otown 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look a a few "BONDAGE SITES" with him. See if you like/are willing to do bondage. It is not for everyone. You could try letting him hold your wrist together during sex. If this is ok/you like it. Go on from there. if not tell him so. I f he still insists on "BONDAGE" you might have to move on.
2006-06-15 22:23:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like bondage. Ask him what type of bondage though some are into just tying,handcuffing whips chains slacking others like racks and even more hard core. It's fun always have a safeword though.
2006-06-11 07:53:07 · answer #3 · answered by mcalano77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bondage involves restraining or tieing up people for sexual pleasure.
It can be great fun, but trust between the two partners is an absolute must.
Here is a good introduction:
http://www.albanypowerexchange.com/BDSMinfo/bondage.htm
2006-06-12 02:35:32 · answer #4 · answered by cordefr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Er this aint for young teenagers... Deff NOT for anyone who has not been with the guy/girl for several months and already fully sexaully active...
Bondage is tie up games often where one plays the baddy... Ie cops and robbers where the cop hangcuffs the robber is a mild example...
Don't think you are ready for it if don't know what it is as too young...
Note when you are tied up you are helpless so NEVER EVER with strangers or those you don't know well or pissed off.
They could want to hurt or rape or kill you...and get in his mates for a share the girl. ie you.
If you fully trust the person you MUST aggree a word that means stop now and do it... You trust him to stop????
Only use things which dont damage and you can get off straight away... ie safety love fluffy hand cuffs from sex shops... these have a latch you can undo yourself with fingers.
Nothing to cut off the blood supply or complex nots...
Also not if he has a tendance to faint, have fits etc or ever drunk...
You are tied up remember...
Often the role play is punishment of 'victim' or baddy has tied up one in their power etc...
Could be funny.
Do you also trust him to use condoms?
2006-06-11 14:31:31 · answer #5 · answered by Joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to start with handcufs and chains to tie you up but use ribbons cotton materials and silk to simulate. Bondage can be very sexualy exciting, try using sport sweatbands with a piece of 1"x1" wood or piece of broom shank attatched to them ( even selotape will do ) to keep your legs apart as the visualisation is very powerful. Enjoy!!!
2006-06-11 07:47:04 · answer #6 · answered by gas_meter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being tied up or tied down, and being at his whim... He can do ANYTHING he wants to you like that...
It can be fun, as long as you trust the other person THOROUGHLY!!
Make sure you have an understanding, have a "safe word" in case you become uncomfortable... Or something that releases the bonds... Or use something like scarves that can be untied...
2006-06-11 07:50:37 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Am I the only person who thinks if he's speaking about it and you don't know what he's talking about and are not even comfortable asking him about it there might be a lack of emotional intimacy in your relationship? Also sex is about pleasing each other, being relaxed and having fun. Just ask him.
2006-06-11 09:17:18 · answer #8 · answered by crabbit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bondage is tieing someone up or otherwise securing them so they can't move
2006-06-11 06:51:24 · answer #9 · answered by Karl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...so many experts on bondage...!!
2006-06-11 08:49:12 · answer #10 · answered by notgnal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bondage is when they tie you up, use handcuffs on you or even ropes to tie your hands/feet up. its a way so they can "please" you and you cant do anything about it til they let you! may seem scary at first, but when your laying there and you cant do anything but to scream in shear pleasure...you'll thank him!
2006-06-11 06:55:16 · answer #11 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋